MY VIEWS ON PROFESSIONAL
HYPNODOMMES
(Julia - with hand on heart.) I Julia do solemnly swear to tell
the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth so help me God.
Interviewer:
Julia, now that you have been sworn in let's get straight to the point.
It is rumored that you believe that all commerical dommes, hypno and
otherwise, are terrible, ruthless people and that you Julia - Evil
Cowgirl that you are - have determined it is your mission in life to
protect submissive men everywhere from the evil wiles of totally
ruthless women. Some are once again ... err.. mentioning... yes that's
the nice word for it... mentioning that they find such a stance
offensive. Comments?
Julia: I think those who
continue to hang on to this issue should let go and find something else
about which to be upset - like the cost of a good evil cowgirl lasso.
Do you have any idea how rare those things are and how much they sell
for? It's outrageous! ;)
All teasing aside, please let me clearly state I have never
said all pay Dommes hypno or otherwise are bad, unethical, and/or
cannot be trusted. I have always encouraged people to exercise caution
before becoming entangled with anyone hypnotically or in a D/s
situation. Anyone - commercial or not.
Why would any sane person let someone toy with their mind or their body
without knowing for certain that individual is ethical and safe?
This
rumor sprang up a couple of years ago because of a decision I made not
to allow advertisement of any kind for commercial Dommes in my yahoo
group. This decision was never meant as an aspersion towards pay Dommes
and I've explained this a number of times. Why this rumor will not die
is beyond me, but
this is the last time I will address it.
Are there dangerous hypnodommes and commercial Dommes out there?
Absolutely. Not all professional Dommes are dangerous and not not all
lifestyle Dommes are safe. Some simply get their kicks from being
extremely cruel and unsafe while others want to take whatever they can
get from you.
There are also safe,
ethical Dommes both commercial and lifestyle.
I've never publicly labeled anyone as a negative force, rather I've
simply pointed out things I consider risky or down right dangerous.
To
stay safe with D/s and D/s hypnoplay, know yourself. Know the basics.
Know the person with whom you are about to play. Use good common sense
that is based on sound information.
Related Links
Hypnosensuality
101
More on Hypnosis
Safety
Why Do You
Do Hypnosis MP3s for Free? (aka Why Aren't You a Pro Domme?
BDSM Safety
Note - I am not an expert on safety. My articles are written as
expressions of things that work for
me.
I strongly encourage you to do your own research. There is a ton of
stuff online and also excellent BDSM primers availble through in
bookstores.
