Venus, Mars, and Sexiness

Lately I've been thinking about the various men I know. I'm quite close to several and if I must say so, they're a very sexy lot - I mean really sexy. Even though they all have their own distinct personalities and looks, they all have a few things in common. They're intelligent, funny, considerate, strong minded, hard working, do the right things sort of guys. They're also kinky, although some are far kinkier than others. Sexually adventurous I guess you would say. Age and looks don't seem to be a common factor. A couple are several years younger than me, a couple right around my age, and three or four are as much as 10-15 years older than I. Totally toned, a couple of big handsome guys, and some just in between. To me, they're all handsome but I'm not sure it's always that conventional handsome. They just have that something about them...

So I was wondering, what says sexy to you? Are men and women really that different about what we consider to be sexy? I think it might depend on the age of the man and the woman. I'm in my mid-40s now and I think I've learned in the last 10 years or so to see "sexy" in a different light. I think our appreciation of others changes as we mature and that may be why "sexy" appears a bit differently than it did when we were 20. Lots to think about, anyway. I'd love to hear your thoughts on the subject.

Oh, and the eye candy in the photos is nice, but to me, what's really sexy can't be captured by a camera.