You've Got That Sexy Feeling

I love the feeling of sexy lingerie, especially when the ensemble is topped off with long, black gloves. Watching my covered fingertips slide over his body, tracing along certain things, teasing certain things - well that quite easily holds my attention and his too ;)

Many people say that clothes don't make a person sexy, rather that it's all in the attitude. To a great extent, I agree. If someone doesn't feel sexy in the first place, no apparel is going to change that. However, if we already feel sexy, certain things we don can really bump things up a few notches.

If you were to don the outfit that makes you feel the sexiest, what would it be? If you could choose an outfit for someone to wear, what would it include?



Not a clue as to why he has a rake, but mmm mmm.

Terrific Tush Tuesday

"What I love about my wife is that she's a really strong-minded, stubborn, fiery woman. I find that sexier than anything else." - Christian Bale

"Any piece of clothing can be sexy with a quietly passionate woman inside it." - Author Unknown

"There's something very sexy about being submissive. Because your guard is down, you have to totally surrender to something like that." - Eva Longoria

What makes someone sexy in your eyes?

Thanks to those who shared these images with me. I've become a bit (more) disorganized of late so I'm not sure who deserves the credit. Please speak up if it is you :)

Venus, Mars, and Sexiness

Lately I've been thinking about the various men I know. I'm quite close to several and if I must say so, they're a very sexy lot - I mean really sexy. Even though they all have their own distinct personalities and looks, they all have a few things in common. They're intelligent, funny, considerate, strong minded, hard working, do the right things sort of guys. They're also kinky, although some are far kinkier than others. Sexually adventurous I guess you would say. Age and looks don't seem to be a common factor. A couple are several years younger than me, a couple right around my age, and three or four are as much as 10-15 years older than I. Totally toned, a couple of big handsome guys, and some just in between. To me, they're all handsome but I'm not sure it's always that conventional handsome. They just have that something about them...

So I was wondering, what says sexy to you? Are men and women really that different about what we consider to be sexy? I think it might depend on the age of the man and the woman. I'm in my mid-40s now and I think I've learned in the last 10 years or so to see "sexy" in a different light. I think our appreciation of others changes as we mature and that may be why "sexy" appears a bit differently than it did when we were 20. Lots to think about, anyway. I'd love to hear your thoughts on the subject.

Oh, and the eye candy in the photos is nice, but to me, what's really sexy can't be captured by a camera.