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I've received several really interesting comments on yesterday's post, "Girl/Girl Equals Hot/Hot". To those of you who responded - nicely done and thank you so much! To those who haven't yet responded, I hope you will as this topic really interests me. I'm holding the comments until a few more answer as I want to give everyone a chance to say what's on their mind without having to worry about mirroring others' thoughts. I'll approve all those comments either later today or tomorrow.

For those of you who feel shy about responding, please feel free to post anonymously. Your thoughts are important to me and I'd enjoy reading them, especially knowing you shared something even though it was difficult to share.

Girl/Girl Equals Hot/Hot?

For years I've heard men speak of their excitement when they think about, hear about, or witness physical intimacies between two women and I've often wondered why. I seldom hear my female friends profess to find watching two men together to be "hot". Yes, men are very visual beings so I can see where that factors in, but even when watching extremely tender intimacies between men (where the female viewer's emotional buttons should be pushed), women don't seem to be nearly as affected.

In looking at the above photo last night, I was struck by the sheer beauty of the bodies of the ladies depicted. Is this what excites some men so? Still.. there are many beautiful sexual acts between men and women yet they're not usually depicted in porn. This leaves me thinking no... I don't see how it could *only* be the beauty of the interaction or porn would be a totally different animal.

So I'm asking - are you excited by watching two women together? What about the interaction appeals to you? Is there appeal even when you know you won't be invited to join? How would you feel if your wife/girlfriend admitted she was drawn to women sexually in addition to being sexually attracted to you? Would you ever want to watch your female partner have sex with a woman? What about watching her make love to another woman (yes, there is a difference)? Would any of this affect your sexual self-confidence?

Lots of nosy questions, I know. I'm not even sure I expect any answers.

I'll admit for myself that I've thought of being with another woman. I think I am much more likely to find relationship compatibility with men (after all, I *love* men), but I'd be lying if I said I never fantasized about being with my fella and another woman at the same time. Don't get me wrong ;) The other woman would *not* be there for his benefit - she would be there for *my* pleasure. In fact, I quite like the thought of tying him up and having him watch. It's not really something I would do because I'm a monogamous person, but it's really really fun to think about ;)