Still More On Touchless Orgasm and Ejaculation

The discussion thread in my group about this subject (and also some of the emails I've received) have really been an interesting read. I was surprised to find that some people are totally disinterested in experiencing anything like this and I'm a little at a loss as to why. I'm not judging their feelings on this - everyone has their own thing - I'd just really like to understand what could be unappealing about this. Certainly I can see why someone would not wish to experience orgasm/ejaculation this way all the time - but as a one time or occasional experience, why not? Maybe I'm at a loss because I'm not a guy. I'd think it would be totally awesome for a submissive to know that his Mistress can control his body in such a way.

From the female perspective, it's not as difficult for some women to orgasm without touching. For me, my imagination is so vivid that under the right circumstances I can have a rather astounding orgasm without any physical stimulation at all. Certainly my FAVORITE way to orgasm is through coital sex (followed closely by oral sex) followed by ...(winks) - ok, as you can see I like it many different ways. One does not detract from the other. It's all good. Very yummy in fact. It just depends on my mood, the circumstances, etc.

Anyway - I'm curious. Is this something you'd like to experience at least once? If your response is no, I'd really love to hear why. Leave a comment. As long as it is respectfully written, I'll publish anonymous comments on this one.

More on Male Orgasm and Ejaculation

My post on "Male Orgasm and Ejaculation Without Physical Stimulation" elicited some interesting comments both here and in my YahooGroup (the discussion there has been far more involved.) Is it possible, isn't it possible, is it harmful, why do it... so many questions.

I initiated this discussion because I thought it was playful and interesting. I personally had no need to prove anything scientifically - I've witnessed it first hand. However, I know there are some people who have a more analytical mind, so I thought I would ask an expert.

The following was posed to Dr. Stephen Leslie on Allexperts.com (Dr Leslie has been a practicing Urologist for 20 plus years).

Question: "Is it physiologically possible for a male to orgasm and/or ejaculate
without direct physical stimulation (no touching whatsoever)? (Not a wet dream
and not a teenager - an adult male.) An example would be a man being erotically
hypnotized or stimulated watching porn or listening to extremely erotic words."

Dr Leslie's response: "It's possible but very uncommon. Nocturnal
emissions are examples of ejaculation without physical stimulation."

So - it's possible. Very uncommon - probably so, although I'm doubting that there's been any study of this phenomenon :)

Someone suggested this could actually be harmful to the male, however as my friend Mark pointed out in a comment in my Yahoo Group, how could it be any more harmful to a relationship, procreation, etc than masturbation would be?

Why do it? Because I wanted to see if I could :) And.. wow... talk about the ultimate control over your submissive's body! The rush I felt when it happened was and remains almost indescribable! Would I want to do this all the time? Of course not. In fact, I think we've only done this a couple of times. The rarity of it makes for a super hot time ;)

How do we do it? Actually, I did not even use hypnosis to achieve this in person. For a number of days (less than a week) he was not allowed to touch. During this time I teased him in a number of ways. A lot. REALLY A LOT. Super sexy teasing at random and unexpected times. I made sure he knew who controlled his body and just how much I controlled it. On the day he was finally allowed to release, he was allowed to because he pleaded to do so (oh my goodness what a turn-on). There was no touching, no sheet or clothing touching him, no friction of any kind. Was he lying perfectly still? Of course not. His hips were moving up and down just like they would have been had we been having coital sex. He was DESPERATE for release.

I've been told by a number of other fellas that they have experienced similar. I have no reason to believe those close to me would lie, so I accept what they've said. Many have reported experiencing this sort of release when listening to my hypnosis MP3s.

I think physiology, belief and desire play a big part in experiencing this phenomenon. Physiologically some men have difficulty with ejaculation even in the most "standard" of circumstances. This may or may not be something that can be changed (I think for some it can). I definitely believe it can't happen for someone who thinks it can't. Again, this is something that can be changed for many.. it may just take the right amount of persuasion ;)

Male Orgasm and Ejaculation

There's been an interesting discussion in my group lately about the ability of men to orgasm and/or ejaculate without any physical stimulation at all. Some profess to have experience achieving this state through erotic hypnosis. Others scoff and maintain there is no way this is physiologically possible. First hand experiences have been discounted by the scoffers as "exaggerated" or downright untrue. Now, I have personal eyewitness knowledge that it is possible for a man to orgasm and ejaculate while awake (not a wet dream) without any physical stimulation at all but I'm looking for some type of "educational" or "scientific" resource that verifies this situation is possible. If you're aware of any information about this online, please share the links.

On a more personal note, what's your experience with this? Whether it's been through use of erotic hypnosis or a highly stimulating tease, have you been able to release without touching?