Evil Hypnodommes

(Julia - with hand on heart.) I Julia do solemnly swear to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth so help me God.

Interviewer: Julia, now that you have been sworn in let's get straight to the point. It is rumored that you believe that all commerical dommes, hypno and otherwise, are terrible, ruthless people and that you Julia - Evil Cowgirl that you are - have determined it is your mission in life to protect submissive men everywhere from the evil wiles of totally ruthless women. Some are once again ... err.. mentioning... yes that's the nice word for it... mentioning that they find such a stance offensive. Comments?

Julia: I think those who continue to hang on to this issue should let go and find something else about which to be upset - like the cost of a good evil cowgirl lasso. Do you have any idea how rare those things are and how much they sell for? It's outrageous! ;)

All teasing aside, please let me clearly state I have never said all pay Dommes hypno or otherwise are bad, unethical, and/or cannot be trusted. I have always encouraged people to exercise caution before becoming entangled with anyone hypnotically or in a D/s situation. Anyone - commercial or not. Why would any sane person let someone toy with their mind or their body without knowing for certain that individual is ethical and safe?

This rumor sprang up a couple of years ago because of a decision I made not to allow advertisement of any kind for commercial Dommes in my yahoo group. This decision was never meant as an aspersion towards pay Dommes and I've explained this a number of times. Why this rumor will not die is beyond me, but this is the last time I will address it. Are there dangerous hypnodommes and commercial Dommes out there? Absolutely. Not all professional Dommes are dangerous and not not all lifestyle Dommes are safe. Some simply get their kicks from being extremely cruel and unsafe while others want to take whatever they can get from you. There are also safe, ethical Dommes both commercial and lifestyle. I've never publicly labeled anyone as a negative force, rather I've simply pointed out things I consider risky or down right dangerous.

To stay safe with D/s and D/s hypnoplay, know yourself. Know the basics. Know the person with whom you are about to play. Use good common sense that is based on sound information.


Related Links:

Hypnosensuality 101
More on Hypnosis Safety
Why Do You Do Hypnosis MP3s for Free? (aka Why Aren't You a Pro Domme?
BDSM Safety

Note - I am not an expert on safety. My articles are written as expressions of things that work for me. I strongly encourage you to do your own research. There is a ton of stuff online and also excellent BDSM primers availble through in bookstores.

Kinky Hypnodomme Fantasies

Recently one of my website visitors asked, "What is the kinkiest thing you think about?"

When I read the question I thought, "Oh that will be an easy one to answer", but the more I thought about it, the more difficult it was to pick the kinkiest. There are many kinky things I think about - cages, anal play, multiple slaves serving me, knife play (more as roleplay with a blunt knife), long term bondage, and quite a bit more. How does one decide which is awarded that badge of kinkiest?

Kidnapping and enslaving through hypnosis a very intelligent, strong man is one of the kinkier things that occasionally occupies my fantasies. Perhaps he's someone who works for me occasionally and every time I see him I am impressed with his intellect and the strength he seems to possess. I want him so I will have him.

One day he steps into my office to drop off a report and I mention that I need some help with a computer problem. He slips into my chair and I look over his shoulder as he tinkers with my Windows settings looking for a non-existent problem. Whispers in his ear, soft and seductive, so very hypnotic- he's soon under my spell. Completely unable to resist. Able only to obey.

We leave the building and head directly to my home. Throughout the entire evening we merely talk. We discuss everything. Music, politics, literature, views on sex - everything. His mind is so quick and his ability to articulate amazes me. His quiet strength is always apparent. Before long we've talked through the night and I've discovered that he is indeed the one.

At daybreak he half-heartedly mentions leaving but quickly acquiesces to my soft instruction that he stay. As the day passes I hypnotize his tired but happy mind several times. Soft, persuasive words can be so difficult to resist even for the strongest man.

By the end of the day, tired and slightly dazed from so much caressing of his mind, he agrees to allow me to hypnotize him even deeper. I must explore what lies in the depths of his mind. Surely kinky desires reside there... I think they reside in everyone.

Before long I've coaxed his most secret desires from him. He wants to be taken - body and mind. He knows he's strong, but he dreams of a woman so much stronger that he is unable to resist her. He smiles because he realizes that I am that woman.

A deeper look reveals a variety of mildly kinky desires. Bondage, especially the sort of bondage where he is totally helpless, followed by such seductive teasing that he is left begging.. pleading. I adore that he is so eager to beg.

He wants to watch. Watching turns him on so much! Bound and watching as I slowly undress, first caressing my body and then pleasuring my body. My soft moans of ecstasy fill him with such an intense desire to touch but he's helpless to do so.

Pleasing - oh yes he wants so much to please and to be used in whatever way I desire. Surrendering himself completely to my wishes. Pleasuring my body as only one so devoted can. He knows better than any before him how to please me orally and in so many other ways.

It's ok that his desires are only mildly kinky. He's given me what I want most - I've enslaved him merely with words. He'll soon find that his desires have expanded to match mine. After all a slave is always eager to give his Mistress whatever she desires. And this slave isn't going anywhere. He's mine for as long as I wish.*

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Question left on the survey/polls section of my website. You may leave your question there as well.

*No, I'd never do anything like this but it's certainly an exciting fantasy to consider.

Brave New World

(artwork by Walter Girotto)

She made a universe and She locked me in it.
She drugged me with slow ecstasy
and left me, trance flowing through my veins,
memory no longer sequential,
every sense amplified to distortion.
The wind was Her breath on my skin,
the sound of the stream worked its way
through my intentions and changed them to Hers.
The sun was Her unbearable passion
and the night contained Her dark designs.
I was alone in paradise to be enjoyed
for the torment I endured without Her.
There had been surgery. Consensus reality
was removed and Her world transplanted
into me. Even my emotions were tuned
and Her music played erotically upon them.
Thoughts not my own move in my mind
as through a thick vacant consistency.
I love Her so much, but what else
is She going to do with me?

- (c) 2007, william the submissive poet