How Do You Like Me Now

For some reason I really, really like this ;)

Terrific Tush Tuesday

"What I love about my wife is that she's a really strong-minded, stubborn, fiery woman. I find that sexier than anything else." - Christian Bale

"Any piece of clothing can be sexy with a quietly passionate woman inside it." - Author Unknown

"There's something very sexy about being submissive. Because your guard is down, you have to totally surrender to something like that." - Eva Longoria

What makes someone sexy in your eyes?

Thanks to those who shared these images with me. I've become a bit (more) disorganized of late so I'm not sure who deserves the credit. Please speak up if it is you :)

Monday Music Madness on Tuesday

Let her talk about the things
You can't explain
To touch is to heal
To hurt is to steal
If you want to kiss the sky
Better learn how to kneel
On your knees boy

Skypecast With Me Tonight

I find that I have a bit of free time this evening. Since there are so many of you that I'd like to catch up with and so little time to do so, I thought that I would invite any of you that wish to join me in a Skype voice chat. You don't have to speak if you are too shy - you may simply join and listen (of course I'd be very pleased to hear from each of you!) ;)


WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

To gain access to this skypecast, email me for the link by 7:50pm CST.

Skype is a free program.

You may download it at http://skype.com/download/skype/windows/ if you are a windows user. There is also a mac version if you are a mac user. The URL for it is linked from the page listed above.

Once you have installed chat, choose an ID and register it.

After you have registered it, log in.



Go back to this email/post and click on the link I sent you.

On that page, click on "Sign in to join"

Sign in using your user name and password.

Next the directions are a little iffy because Skype sometimes has a bug. You may at this point have the option join the skypecast. If you do, great, click in and join. You may get a message saying skype cannot find the room you are looking for. Go back and click again on the link I emailed to you and click "join this skypecast"

You should be there at this point. If you have trouble add lady_julia44 as your contact and I will try to help you.


The time for this skypecast will be 8:30pm central time until about 10pm. I know that is late for some but it is as early as I can do it.

If I am not there at the appointed time, check back here to see if something happened and I couldn't make it after all or in case I will be late. (A couple of difficult situations are occurring in my life right now and I can't absolutely predict something won't happen to prevent me from being here.)


Sorry for the short notice :(

Lady Julia

Thought Might Enjoy This

Any truth to this for any of you? :)

Terrific Tush Tuesday

Assuming one is dominant and the other submissive, which one do you think is which in this photo?

Monday Music Madness

I couldn't find a professionally made music video of Constantine Maroulis performing this song, but I still wanted to post it.

"Several Thousand"

Every time I see you I'm exalted
I wanna write to let her self retain
That double rainbow ain't got nothing on you
You done my head in but I feel ok

And every time I think about you
Several thousand times a day
I can feel this pull like a river towards the ocean
Tell me do you feel this way

I got myself caught in a situation
I tried to lock myself inside my room
That only made it sink in that much deeper
It only made me wanna be with you

And every time I think about you
Several thousand times a day
I can feel this pull like a river towards the ocean
Tell me do you feel this way

You can say I'm not playing fair at all
Yeah I won't even try to argue that away
Cause where you're concerned my control has failed me
What more do I have to say

And every time I think about you
Several thousand times a day
I can feel this pull like a river towards the ocean
And what more do I have to say

When I (every time I think about you)
Every time (every time)
Several thousand times a day(every time)
I can feel this pull like a river towards the ocean
Tell me that you feel the same.

Thinking of You

Zaftig and Sexy

This past week I've been observing a discussion in TCOD about the appeal (or perhaps the lack thereof) of women who are overweight. Are heavier women sexy or aren't they? Although the gentleman who posed the issue was fairly consistent in his assertions that most men find women who aren't thin to be unappealing, several other group members disagreed.

As a woman who is by health industry standards a bit zaftig (doesn't that sound much better than plump?), I have heard many such discussions. Of course everyone has preferences in the physical traits that initially spark interest. To deny this would of course be silly. Many men especially seem to be very visual creatures. A large number seem to be attracted to thin women, others to women with large breasts, while others prefer small perky breasts, beautiful eyes, or a nice behind. And, yes, some are attracted to plus size ladies. Usually after that initial interest people move on to look at the entire person, their personality, their intellect, and the other less visible attributes. Some, however, can't get past that initial physical barrier and that's ok. Again, everyone has their preferences.

Sometimes I'm asked if it bothers me that "most" men seem to prefer thin women. I'm not sure of that "most" label, especially within my age group of men, but I would have to say it bothers me not at all. What I think matters most is how I feel about myself. I like me. I'm not arrogant. I don't think I'm better than anyone else or more attractive than anyone else, but I like not just
my mind, my personality, my laugh, and my voice - I like my body and I feel good being who I am. I'm comfortable wearing most anything from professional attire to some extraordinarily sexy lingerie. And I'm just as comfortable taking it off. I'm comfortable with letting him
watch as I touch my body... touching in all the places he wants to touch. I am confident in my ability to seduce him whenever and wherever I want. I am confident he wants me - and wants me badly. I am confident I can take him to a place where he is on the brink - begging.. begging desperately.. and I know I can take him past that point to a place where he cannot think.. he can only feel pleasure. I am comfortable with sex and love all that goes along with it.

I'm aware I repeated the words comfortable and confident a number of times, but I think *that's* the key to being attractive to others. Not how much I do or don't weigh. Not how tall or short I am. Not how large my breasts may be. I am not only comfortable with myself and my sexuality but I'm confident in my ability as a lover and a Domme. I think I'm sexy, therefore I am. Perhaps not to everyone, but that's ok. I know I am to him. How much more can anyone ask?

You may be wondering, is she writing this to stroke her ego? Smiles - not at all. I wanted to address it because I think it's an issue that effects many women and it's one of the things that may prevent them from feeling comfortable with taking that first step toward dominating their partner. Fellas.. if your lady is hesitant, ask yourself, are you showing her how sexy she is? My fella tells me often that I'm the sexiest woman he's ever known. I can't tell you how amazing that feels. Encourage your lady... help her see that there's no one else in the world who is sexier than she is to you. Sexy ladies, after all, are more inclined to do all those sexy things you so desire... ;)