A Taste of Female Dominance

For some time now I've had an interest in allowing a number of my friends to share in a taste of female dominance. Sometimes it's through "experiences" I lead in TCOD, sometimes it's private, personalized direction. It's important to me that I do nothing to encourage emotional dependence so either way, it's a temporary thing as friends, not within a relationship. Domination-lite, I suppose. Even though it's "lite", from what I hear it's a very intense thing for many of them and I know it is for me.

Both types of experiences seem to have been quite enjoyable and very educational not just for the fellas but for me. With each one I've garnered more insight into how these men think, what they want, what they need, and yes - what they can't resist. I've learned a great deal about myself in the same way. Most especially I've learned more about Lady Julia-style dominance. I term it that way because I'm not saying this is how it is or must be for anyone else, just that it's what works for me. It works *very well* for me ;)

I've decided to periodically share some of the emails and posts with you that I've received during these times, sometimes with my comments and sometimes as stand-alone posts. Don't worry - I wouldn't share anything without permission and I won't let any identifying information leak. When someone writes to me, their words are for me and me alone unless they say otherwise.

There are a couple of points of explanation necessary in order to assure their comments make sense.

During many of these activities, I instruct them to wear a red silk ribbon tied around their cocks to serve as a symbol of my control over their sexuality during that period of time. Lately I've been sending them out to buy new ribbon each time. They're instructed to approach female salespersons in the hopes the ladies will question why they are purchasing 12" of red satin ribbon. Ideally they will be able to experience a bit of pleasurable embarrassment when this happens :) If asked, they're to respond they were instructed to do so by a lady and can't say anything else.

On most days during the group experiences I ask them to listen to one of my hypnosis MP3 sessions, each chosen to encourage specific responses. During times I spend directing someone one-on-one, sometimes I utilize hypnosis, sometimes I don't. It's been interesting to see that there's very little difference one-on-one in their eagerness and obedience. The hypnosis is one tool that I can use to encourage these responses, but it isn't required. I can be pretty persuasive without utilizing hypnosis at all ;)

I'm sure I'll need to add other comments as I post their thoughts, but for the moment, I hope I've given you enough information to find yourself interested in hearing more :)