Spanking and Being Spanked
Out of context, I know, but I tend to indulge my fantasies from time to time...
“I’ve been in these positions before when we were favored and the press starts getting carried away and we end up getting spanked.” - Barack Obama
Fanning myself now...
Out of curiosity, does being spanked or spanking in a sexual context or D/s context appeal to you?
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posted by Lady Julia @ 1:40 PM
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i think i much prefer the whip down below (last post) :D
i haven't actually gone there, but i just have a feeling that i could.
Helo Lady Julia,
There was that scene in Kill Bill where Uma Thruman fights her way through a Japanese gang, "the Crazy 88" and the last man standing is a boy, who she takes over her knee and spanks with her sword. Then ordering him to go home to his Mother. So I guess Tarantino was "tapping" into something in the male phsyche?
The Joy of Discipline
When you give me permission
to enjoy the whip,
when you ask again and again
if I like it,
if I want it,
if I need it,
then I kiss your heels,
I kiss the lash
and expose my desire
to give you pleasure
no matter the cost.
When I surrender to you
and allow myself
to enjoy your power
and my punishment,
then I lose my mind
and become only
your submissive tool,
finding sensual meaning
as you rule my body
and my imagination.
We share an idea,
but you own control.
My arousal you use
to ensure obedience
and perfect discipline.
You climax while I suffer,
then we repeat the game.
When I am drained to exhaustion,
then you promise relief
and spank me 'till I weep,
holding me against your breast
without a hope of release.
I whimper in frustration
while you smile in promise.
I love you more than life.
Use me again and again tonight.
When I was being spanked by my parents for misbehaving I found myself generating rather negative feelings towards the process.
When I was twenty one I talked a beautiful red headed girl into spanking me with a large wooden spoon. I had been misbehaving in a different way and did not have much persuading to do. I found myself relishing the process, ...... which the young lady soon noticed, ...... paused for a few seconds in disbelief, ..... then continued with obviously greater abandon. Oh!, the joy!
I have since enjoyed a good turn of the lash now and then but never found that perfect home-run-hitting Femdom hand or whip. With undying curiosity and ceaseless enthusiasm, I seek.
Arafin
Of course spankings have their place. I enjoy giving and receiving.
When giving, the trick is making them sting in a fashion that generates a good squeal without actually being terribly unpleasant. Someone should know he or she has been spanked when the spanking is over, or what's the point?
Yes:)
Being spanked or spanking does not appeal to me. However, I have found that being controlled can feel very good. Maybe I could be controlled into submitting to what I don't find appealing.
Will
Robert, a year ago would you have considered spanking to be a place where you could "go"?
Nigel, I think he definitely was tapping into some males' fantasies :) I wonder if that clip is available on youtube? I haven't seen the movie so it would be interesting to watch.
Palimpsest,
You may laugh when you read this, but when I pressed "post", one of my first thoughts was, "this is a topic that will stir wonderful words in Palimpsest's mind". I'm not even sure why I thought that but it's lovely to see that I was correct.
This and all your works have been lovely :)
Arafin, reading your description, I was amazed that I had shared a somewhat similar experience (albeit from an older age and a different perspective.) It's amazing the things we can discover if we're open and observant.
Free Thinking Writer, excellent point :)
Will, I do so love seeing your mind working :) Doesn't it amaze you a bit to think that you'd consider doing things that you didn't like strictly because you so enjoy the control? Well...not just the control, right? I think I know from the things you've written that you could perhaps be persuaded to enjoy something like this if it really pleased or excited your Lady.
i am much more consistently in a mindset now to be willing than i was a year ago. But if caught at the right time, with some preparation, i would also have been willing then too i believe.
Gulp.
:D
Forgot to mention,
Check out Tom's latest post for mature spankable goodness:)
Susan, I saw that yesterday and neglected to give Mr Allen his well deserved kudos.
Very nice tush, Mr. Allen! ;)
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