Evil Cowgirl Calling All Good Boys
A few days ago I mentioned that I needed some help. With the exception of Arafin (adore you Arafin for being ever faithful), I've had no positive responses. Not one. I thought perhaps the post wasn't attention-getting enough so I've retitled the post, spruced it up with some eye-catching artwork.
Now that I have your attention ;) I thought I'd explain a bit more about what you can do. I am wanting to add some sites to my Mesmerizing Women of the Web site. I'm sure if you check your favorites list, you'll find some sites that might be of interest to others with a D/s and/or hypno interest. Please email them to me rather than post them as comments here. Don't worry if you aren't sure if they'll be appropriate for the site, I'll decide that and I'll be so pleased by the effort ;) I think most all of you could help me out a bit with this, don't you?
As for the Femdom Fantasies site, I know that many of you aren't writers, but some of you write very well. If you're planning to write a story to submit to that site, go ahead and let me know so I can know how many I can count on.
I know how good it feels for a submissive man to do something for a dominant lady, even if it is a dominant lady friend. I can just imagine how excited you'll feel as you respond to this request. After all, pleasing does feel so very good, doesn't it? ;)
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posted by Lady Julia @ 6:08 PM
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I'm new, but should I feel guilty too?
Why would I want you to feel guilty?
Lady Julia;
You are too kind to act so naive.
Perhaps you do not want me to feel my guilt; but maybe I should for not doing as you asked, such as writing a story for your site. Especially after the cowgirl encore that we somewhat less than always classy guys so love.
Ever Respectful
Actually, I don't want you or anyone to feel guilty. No one is obligated to do things to please me :) I just wanted to make sure my persuasive skills hadn't left me. Since so many fellas profess an urge to please a Domme, I hated to not bring focus to a golden opportunity ;)
About the Evil Cowgirl - since you're new, you may not know the stories....
http://www.ladyjulia.net/blog/2007/03/some-days.html
http://www.ladyjulia.net/blog/2007/04/evil-cowgirl-update.html
http://www.ladyjulia.net/blog/2007/10/stepford-wives-and-evil-cowgirl.html
http://www.ladyjulia.net/blog/2007/10/simple-but-sexy.html
Lady Julia you seem to be doing better and seem happier than you were. I am glad you are having a good time again.
Whatever we may have disagreed about in the past I want to say I am sorry to hear about your father.
Thank you very much, Dick.
Andy, I can't honestly say I feel better or am really enjoying myself. I'm trying to keep doing things so hopefully I will feel better soon. Fake it til you make it, as the saying goes.
You are free to post any of the stories I have sent you there if you wish.
jmred
Hi!
So nice to see you blogging again.
Especially on Tuesdays:)
Hope you get lots of stories. Maybe Tom could write a sexy story about not having sex:)
Hugs!
P.S. I always knew Dick was a softie.
You still have not received many responses have you Julia? This is why I stopped doing anything with men online unless I make them pay me for the pleasure of serving me. The problem is you are not making them sacrifice to do something for you. Charge them for reading your blog. Charge them for those MP3s of yours. They don't respect anyone who gives things for free. "If it's free then it isn't worth anything." is the mentality. You say you don't have to be a bitch to dominate but look at the response you have received. Bitch at them instead of talking nicely to them and then see what results you get. For every "sub" who writes asking you to dominate him or who tells you he longs to serve a sexy Domme then think about this and how they are lying to you. You talk about having many sub friends. How many of them have done anything as simple as giving you links to the sites they go to?
Celestial Bliss,
When I have time, I will address your comments more fully. For now I will briefly say that I disagree with your position quite strongly. There are many reasons why people do and don't do things - we cannot possibly know them all. One thing I do know - when I go to sleep at night, I rest well knowing I did not buy the affection and respect I receive from those I care for.
First off Celest, you don't read very well. Lady Julia instructed respondents to email rather than post the responses, which i was more than happy to do. Secondly, Lady Julia does have requirements for Her core MP3s that cost in terms of time and interaction. Again, somehow you weren't paying close enough attention. Lastly, responding to bitchiness is a separate and distinct fetish from dominance. Many of us who respond to Lady Julia are here precisely because we view what you represent with disgust. And lastly, why not just admit it; knock off the phoniness and dishonesty - you are here because your income is threatened by someone who has quite a following due to amazing qualities She possesses that inspire love and admiration and submission.
WHAT !?! You mean that other people who read your blog don’t pay !?! I can’t believe this! All this time I’ve been paying $100 a pop just to log on and now I find I could have been doing it for free!
OK, OK, I know I shouldn’t whine. After all, it was through Lady Julia’s blog that I connected to Susan’s blog, and on Susan’s blog I won that really cool car. I guess you could say that I have been compensated if you look at it that way.
So now what do I do? That’s the question, isn’t it? Do I keep paying or try to get in here for free and risk being denied access? Could I even begin to handle the humiliation of that? (Humiliation that others would certainly pay grand amounts for, no doubt.)
Today my world has been turned upside down.
Whew!
Arafin
Celestial Bliss left out another reason why Lady J didn't receive a fast response from some of us.
People who write stories well enough to share with others have some level of standard they set for themselves. These stories take time. Committing to sending a story means one know he will be properly inspired to produce a piece of quality that's worth writing and then later worth reading.
Femdom aspects aside, I don't think sending Lady J a half-quality story would be the mark of a friend.
I don't always control my stories. Sometimes they control me. I don't promise stories of a particular type to a particular timeframe simply because if I were to do so, the end result would mostly likely be forced.
Half quality.
I disagree. I say slap something together and send it in. I think that’s one of the reasons people shy away from writing erotica, they think it has to be some literary masterpiece, the “War and Peace” of porn.
Sex is fun. Writing about sex should be fun.
Sure, you don’t want to use the word “aching” when you should be using the word “throbbing” and completely embarrass yourself but other than, have at it.
This, with a few notable exceptions, seems to be a very supportive group.
P.S I’ve always thought Lady Julia should charge for her blog and make obscene$$$$.
Darn. i wanted to post an interesting comment but the machine keeps on spitting back out my $20 bills. i think i'll need to get some tips from Arafin. What to do ...
Susan, it's great to see your outrageous humor once again make a splash.
:D
OMG! Robert that’s too funny.
I don’t know how much time I’ve wasted looking for a dollar bill that was “good enough” for the “snobby” pop machine.
You fold and smooth and crease those dollar bills to get the machine to accept one and then get all excited that you were given the “privilege” of buying a Diet Coke.
Ugh!
"First off Celest, you don't read very well."
I read perfectly well.
"Lady Julia instructed respondents to email rather than post the responses, which i was more than happy to do."
I did not say she had not received any responses and I did not think she hadn't received them because I could not see them posted. I know "submissive" men. I INQUIRED, "You still have not received many responses have you Julia?" I knew the answer, but I did ask a QUESTION.
"Secondly, Lady Julia does have requirements for Her core MP3s that cost in terms of time and interaction."
I can see that works well for her. She has people speaking to her with disrespect here. She has to repeatedly ask for people to do things for her. Submissive men need to be desperate in order to do things. She must control needs and desires to get the responses she wants.
"Again, somehow you weren't paying close enough attention."
You are very hostile. Why? If you submitted something then I must not have been talking about you. I said "very many", not "none".
"Lastly, responding to bitchiness is a separate and distinct fetish from dominance. Many of us who respond to Lady Julia are here precisely because we view what you represent with disgust."
If you disagree that is your choice. I did not say all men responded that way. I suggested she try it and see if she was more satisfied with the results. Men who obviously have feelings for her may not need to be spoken to in a bitchy way but many men do. I was commenting on the situation in the comments section of a public blog.
"And lastly, why not just admit it; knock off the phoniness and dishonesty - you are here because your income is threatened by someone who has quite a following due to amazing qualities She possesses that inspire love and admiration and submission."
Is this rudeness an example of how well trained you have been? I am not a Domme by profession. I charge for the reasons I said. I do not need the money because I have a very well paid career. I repeat you cannot give things to most people because they perceive there is no value in something given for free.
"One thing I do know - when I go to sleep at night, I rest well knowing I did not buy the affection and respect I receive from those I care for."
You're not buying their affection and respect in terms of receiving their money but Julia you are giving them what they want without making them work for it. How is that any more assurance that they genuinely love and respect you?
I am not trying to create an atmosphere of hostility here. If the submissive men who read your blog cannot handle reading my comments then I will correspond with your privately if you want. The reason I commented here is I read where you have too many emails to answer and that you read here first when you are short on time.
Celest,
Your comments to Lady Julia were not only rude, but condescending and ignorant of her situation and the facts – and still are apparently. Your tone seems to have softened some, but because of your initial rudeness, I’m reluctant to believe anything you say about who you are. And I’m happy enough to have handled your comments honestly, pointedly and appropriately.
“I read perfectly well.”
All evidence to the contrary.
I find it interesting that you are an adherent of doling out “bitchiness” but apparently not so eager to take it. What are we to make of that? And I’m even happy to give it to you for free – it’s just so easy. But perhaps you would like it better if I charged for it? Oh yes, you would see it as having more VALUE that way.
It’s self evident to me that it takes more intelligence and finesse to be dominant by being persuasive, especially hypnotically persuasive. So if YOU can’t handle my comments, I suggest you do take it offline. You could stand to learn a lot from Lady Julia.
BTW: Who said anything about me being a submissive man? For you and most others I am actually QUITE dominant. Deal with it.
I have a lot more to say but it looks like the silly money machine is spitting my $20s back out again, darn!
"I can see that works well for her. She has people speaking to her with disrespect here."
This is the internet - people speak disrespectfully to others on here all the time. I'm just not afraid to publish those type of comments.
"She has to repeatedly ask for people to do things for her."
That's not true. The whole submissive world doesn't belong to me. Even my submissive friends do not belong to me. Thus, their time does not belong to me. My friends often do things for me. When I've requested anything of my submissive, it's done.
"Submissive men need to be desperate in order to do things. She must control needs and desires to get the responses she wants."
My friends are motivated because they care for me. It's the same reason I do things for them. That's called friendship.
"You're not buying their affection and respect in terms of receiving their money but Julia you are giving them what they want without making them work for it. How is that any more assurance that they genuinely love and respect you?"
You've not be around very long or you wouldn't have to ask that question. It's very obvious to me *by their actions* that a number of people love and respect me. That's something that won't stop if I stop doing things for them (I know this is true because I have barely been around for the last year yet they're still here for me).
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