Ten Sensual and Kinky Things

A while back I asked for suggestions of things to blog about. Susan, the Goddess of Fauxdomme, posed the following question:
Aliens have finally taken over earth and limited us to 10 things to have fun with in the boudoir. You can never change the items, only the batteries:) They can be items around the house or purchased at the erotic boutique. What’s on your list?Including the eight fellas above, I'd add massage oils and this:
So many bottoms, so little time ;)
Alright, I admit that I don't really want eight men, but it was fun for a few minutes to think of the things I would do to each or have each do. The guy with the goatee in the front... I'm thinking he would look great in a chef's apron, nothing else, and carrying a silver tray with chocolate covered strawberries. I'd call him Antonio. He'd be the first to...
Ok ok, back to reality!
Last night when I was talking to my fella, I asked him Suzy's question and took note of his list. I thought it interesting that several things on his list were things he could use to gently tease and arouse me. It would seem he was in a bit of an alpha mood last night ;) Every now and then it's ok with me if he wants to take a bit of control. I'm not threatened by it because I know it doesn't diminish my control over him. Since during those occasional times we keep it all sensual and there's nothing S&m involved, it's pretty exciting for me.
Among the things on Rook's list:
Silken ropes
Scented oils
Blindfold
Nipple Clamps
Piece of fur
Soft cat of nine tails
Mirror
Feathers
Cock collar
He declined to answer the last one on the grounds he might incriminate himself, but I know what it is ;)

My list was really difficult for me to make. There are so many things I enjoy! I finally narrowed it down to ten but I cheated a bit by listing cuffs and chains as one item :)
Silk scarves
Chocolate Syrup
Nipple clamps
Penis whip
Cock collar with leash
Hot wax
Blindfold
His collar
Box filled with various chains and cuffs
Electric toothbrush (induces wonderful orgasms when placed lightly against the clit)
Red silk scarf, perfect for tying wrists and legs to chairs ;)Thanks for the fun question Suzy :) Maybe others will create their lists and we can compare ideas. I may revise my list later as I continue to consider all the possibilities.
Labels: Cock Whip, Sex Toys, tease and denial





12 Comments:
A lovely list, and I'm sure I would be hard pressed to fit my own into only ten options... So I'll cheat!
1) A pocket watch
2) A suggestible subject
...and all the others can merely be suggested into existence, sneaky eh?
(This would be despite the fact I cannot use a pocket-watch as an inducer to save my life, my arm tends to get tired!)
Wow, where was my mind? Obviously it was more on the kinky things. I would have to have my crystal pendant but then again - I wear it. Does something I wear count as 1 of my 10 things? :) If so, I will omit the blindfold. Silk scarves work great for that anyway!
Loved your list, Mirehn :)
Every now and then it's ok with me if he wants to take a bit of control.
Are you admitting now you aren't a Domme? A real Domme wouldn't relinquish control IMO.
Well my mind first jumped to kinky things, but when I realized that they would never fit, I decided to play to my strengths.
Are you admitting now you aren't a Domme? A real Domme wouldn't relinquish control IMO.
A 'real' Domme? What is such a thing? A fantasy creation brought to life? Because if you are talking about flesh and blood people, then there is never one type of anything, despite what you might want. Lady Julia (and anyone else that calls themselves Domme) can do anything she wants without having to relinquish her title, if she so wishes.
At least that is my opinion. But there again I always tend to resist restrictive titles etc for just this reason.
What do you think Julia, do you feel any less of a Domme for enjoying trying things the other way around every once in a while?
Mirehn, I always enjoy whatever I do sexually. He is happy and satisfied by being with me. We have incredible, loving, hot, passionate sex no matter what things we choose to do. If that makes me less of a Domme - pfft - who cares? How many couples in their 40s can describe their sex life in that way?
I do what I want, when I want, with the person I choose. He does what I want, when I want, with only me. That fits my definition of a femdom relationship ;)
Mirehn, I always enjoy whatever I do sexually. He is happy and satisfied by being with me. We have incredible, loving, hot, passionate sex no matter what things we choose to do. If that makes me less of a Domme - pfft - who cares? How many couples in their 40s can describe their sex life in that way?
I do what I want, when I want, with the person I choose. He does what I want, when I want, with only me. That fits my definition of a femdom relationship ;)
Amen! ;)
A real Domme wouldn't relinquish control IMO.
How stupid.
If she hands over the car keys and says "Drive me to the pool party," is she giving an order for her own pleasure, or is she relinquishing control?
I was reading another board and a woman sub wrote in to say that she was freaked out because her master wanted her to use a dildo on him so he could experience anal stimulation. She was so freaked that she admitted she started crying and couldn't do it. She had very rigid ideas of what "Dominant" and "Submissive" meant, and he crossed those lines. Very sad.
Anyone is entitled to their own opinions wrt the meanings of those terms, of course. However, one's opinions are just that: opinions and not objective definitions. Why anyone would try to force those opinions upon somebody that they didn't know is a mystery to me.
Are you admitting now you aren't a Domme? A real Domme wouldn't relinquish control IMO.
Yes, dick. I'm not a real Domme. Now that you've forced me to admit it you can toddle along.
I only approved your comment because it stirred me to add this: I have no intention of defending who I am or what I do to you or anyone else. I don't mind answering questions, but I will not apologize for who I am.
I was reading another board and a woman sub wrote in to say that she was freaked out because her master wanted her to use a dildo on him so he could experience anal stimulation. She was so freaked that she admitted she started crying and couldn't do it. She had very rigid ideas of what "Dominant" and "Submissive" meant, and he crossed those lines. Very sad.
I agree, it is sad. Hopefully he explained things to her so that she could understand where he was coming from.
Anal stimulation feels good, especially to men. Why shouldn't he have that enjoyment if that's what he wants?
It's the same with a Domme doing oral sex. I *like* doing it. It's an incredible way to control a man and to share in his pleasure. What's not to like and what makes that solely a submissive act?
Lady Julia,
When I read the following words, I thought to myself, "she is truly a strong woman in control."
Will
Every now and then it's ok with
me if he wants to take a bit of
control. I'm not threatened by
it because I know it doesn't
diminish my control over him.
"...not a real Domme"
Chuckle snort.. if the world only knew!
The end of that line to become Your slave...? Susan's information is outdated. It's now in Idaho.
Hmm. Lady J asked for our lists...
Ankle cuffs (locking, of course)
Leather mittens
Sufficient locks for the above
Sufficient restraints for the above
Blindfold
Oils
Something that vibrates
My laptop (for writing stories)
Silk scarves (for oh! so many purposes)
And of course, my Lady.
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