Some Never Learn
I've been visiting with my nieces and nephews this holiday weekend. What a blast! They are so smart and so cute most of the time. Like all kids they'll occasionally fight and someone will have to intervene to explain why they cannot say and do certain things. Overall they're doing really well at learning the basics of interacting with others. Most kids do.
As I was sitting here thinking about them this morning, it occurred to me that there are a few of these basics that some never learn.
1. Putting an innocent look on your face before you say something doesn't fool anyone.
- "I didn't mean to hurt his feelings by saying those things about him. He's just being sensitive. Either that or what I said about him must be true."
- "No, I'm not punching her in the stomach because I read what she wrote about me in her diary. I didn't even know she had a diary."
- "I didn't mean anything when I asked why that lady has a big butt. I was just pondering the concepts of big butts in general and meant nothing against her big butt."
3. Pretending you don't want to be in the club when you haven't been asked to be in the club really fools no one. If you were nicer then people might ask you.
4. Saying "that can't be right! That's not how we do it at my house! My mommy does it differently!" eventually leaves you standing alone on the playground. Everyone's mommy does things a little differently.
5. If you make your version of the game too complicated you strangle all the fun out of it for others. You can't expect everyone to play by your rules or to assign the same value to things that you do.
All in all, I'm proud of my nieces and nephews because even the two who are six have learned more of the basics than some adults.
Labels: Human Behavior
posted by Lady Julia @ 7:52 AM
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Sorry my dear. I do not want to create conflict for you as a result of my previous comment. Thank you for deleting it.
It is a pity that the people who need to see themselves in posts like these are unlikely to.
I've discovered there is, at times,Lady Julia, an innocence gifted to children which they embrace naturally. How long they hold to this gift's genuine spirit is dependent on how soon the forces of their personal association with their own societal experience touch them. then, I feel, some children arrest their growth and age-out without ever reaching adulthood.
It's nice to read of your positive familial observations captured within the beauty of sharing Thanksgiving.
Respectfully,
willie owen
You and Suzy are evil, evil women who will not let that man stroke his own ego in peace. Shame on you both.
Perhaps your relatives are having the benefit of being influenced by you, that is why they are developing so well :-)
x BLACK WIDOW x
5. If you make your version of the game too complicated you strangle all the fun out of it for others. You can't expect everyone to play by your rules or to assign the same value to things that you do.
Hah! If I didn't know better, I'd say that this was one of those metaphoricalistical posts in which you're writing about one thing, but meaning the concept should be applied to someone, er, something else.
To "The Goddess of Thepan Ties",
via Lady Julia........
*******************************
A brain! A brain!
A brain! A brain!
Could they, would they
Find or gain?
I do not like rude miscreants,
And blogs by tepid, crass infants.
You do not need them,
So you pray.
Shy them, deny them.
And free you may
Be from such rubbish on this day.
Dam
The flow and let it be
Stuck inside them
You will see.
Hey!
You dig?
You did? You dig them witless rants?
Or soon forget what they wrote
And file such words under “overbearing bloat”.
If you make your version of the game too complicated you strangle all the fun out of it for others. You can't expect everyone to play by your rules or to assign the same value to things that you do.
You are far outside the norm of Dommes. You can see that right? If you look at other Domme's blogs none of them ever mention letting their men dominate them ever. Not Destiny, not Aradia, not Her, not any of them.
To continue with the metaphor you aren't playing the same game at all.
You are far outside the norm of Dommes.
Dick, if all your friends jumped off a bridge... or in your case, if all your alternate personalities started reading Agotaras, would you do the same?
Actually, at this point I really do wonder why you even bother to mention this anymore.
You are far outside the norm of Dommes. You can see that right? If you look at other Domme's blogs none of them ever mention letting their men dominate them ever. Not Destiny, not Aradia, not Her, not any of them.
You're right. In many ways I'm not like any of the ladies you mentioned. However in the most important way I am. What they do works for them and their partners. I can say the same for my relationship.
I would really like to understand why diversity is such an issue with you and some others. If I talked about how disgusting I find a couple of things others do, there would be a "scandal". I would be "judging someone else's kink". I'm not saying they are disgusting, just the act. And, it's only disgusting when I think about me doing it, not them. You don't have to like what I do or want any part of it, but why does it bug you that it works for me? I don't care what anyone else does as long as they aren't hurting someone.
Hah! If I didn't know better, I'd say that this was one of those metaphoricalistical posts in which you're writing about one thing, but meaning the concept should be applied to someone, er, something else.
Think so? ;)
Well then, let's apply dick's logic to dick.
There don't seem to be others here with your problem dick. Not Thomas, nor Tom, nor 'x Black Widow x', nor Arafinwe, nor hundreds of others -including Aradia!
So according to dick's own "logic", that makes dick not a "real" submissive? or perhaps not a "real" man? or "real" person?
Question is, what does that make dick exactly?
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