Simple But Sexy

Yesterday I promised my friend Will that I would share some more Evil Cowgirl moments. I can't say any of these are especially mischievous or sexually playful, or even very imaginative. But, they are pretty fun :) I like sharing things like this because I think some women have the idea things have to be complicated and wild in order for their partner to feel dominated.

Because it's not sweet to kiss and tell without permission, I won't regale you with stories specific to anyone, just some general memories or possibilities.

Sometimes the fun comes for simple things as long as they're not so simple to the person experiencing them. For example, let's say a man finds it a very big but very secret sexual turn-on to wear women's lingerie. He enjoys doing this at home, but he's never worn it anywhere else. Perhaps I'd just casually mention how much I'd enjoy the idea of him wearing a nice pair of panties to work today. No one would know, just he and I. Often throughout the day he'd feel the brush of that soft fabric and think how wonderful it feels to be controlled just for a little while. Perhaps that would be all that would be needed to really excite. Better yet.. perhaps what would nudge those feelings of arousal right over the edge would be reading this paragraph knowing that I am telling everyone his secret without telling anyone who he is. Public exposure but just a tinge. Just the right amount to make a powerful impression.

Or maybe I might assign another somewhat reserved man to visit a nearby bookstore to complete an assignment. Before he leaves he's to don a cock collar to remind him that his actions and his desire are being controlled by me. From the outset he's torn and excited by being forced to choose just the right underwear. Boxers may hide an erection better, but they leave wide open the risk of the cock collar dropping out onto the floor should it slip off. Bikini brief underwear will make certain he doesn't lose his cock collar at the wrong moment but it will do nothing to hide the fact that he is extraordinarily turned on throughout the completion of his task. Decisions, decisions. Once he's decided and has walked through the mall trying desperately to hide his arousal, he walks into the bookstore where he is to seek out a salesperson and ask to see the S&M section. Perhaps the only salesperson available would be a woman a number of years his senior who would blush even more than he does upon hearing his request ;) Or.. perhaps I might assign him to wear his cock collar while spending a macho evening playing poker with his friends. Imagine how he'd wonder the whole evening what his friends would think and say if they knew what he was wearing.

Then there's always text messages and voicemail. I might briefly describe my office fantasy scenario on voicemail and throughout the description make apparent by the quickness of my breathing, the tone of my voice, and a physical description that I was touching myself. Of course I would make certain to leave the message when he would be sure to retrieve it while in his office.

Text messages are fun for teasing someone who knows you very well. Receiving a message that says "I'm using my toothbrush, thinking of you" probably would do absolutely nothing for most people, but for someone who knows that I have a special electric toothbrush that gives the most intense orgasms when placed very gently against the clit, well that message says a lot, doesn't it? Or bossy text messages are great to direct someone to a specific task like "clean your kitchen". No fun? Maybe not, but imagine knowing you must immediately stop whatever you are doing, take off your clothes and don only a chef's apron, then clean your kitchen while a very erotic, personalized recording plays in the background.

So much fun, so little time ;)