TVH Asked...

TVH asked...


1. Other than your favourite cowgirl outfit, do you have an outfit that makes you feel great and "uber sexy".

I have several outfits that I really like, but one of my favorites is a simple white silk button up blouse and a short black skirt. Underneath a very lacy bra, garters, and stockings. Nothing else. Oh and black pump-style heels. I also have an outfit that looks quite a bit like this that I like a lot. The opera gloves were a romantic gift from Rook - one of those "there is no reason for this gift" gifts.


2. What is your favourite food and favourite dessert?

Chinese food (General T'sao's chicken) and raspberry chocolate cheesecake from Olive Garden (I know, I know. It's totally decadent so I have it exactly twice a year to spare my hips the extra burden ;)


3. What kind of things do you think a man should do to bring him closer to a woman and arouse her interest?

Since everyone is different I think the best thing to do is find out what makes her tick. Talk to her and really listen to what she says. It's not all the difficult because most people really like to talk about themselves (she says as she answers questions about herself). Treat her like a person, not a commodity (sounds common sensical, but you'd be surprised at how many guys approach me and it is obvious it doesn't matter to them that it's me they're approaching. They just want to be dominated and it's clear any Domme will do.)

There are other things but I'm not sure I can say they apply to "most Dommes". Except for me, I pretty much only know vanilla women. I (and the vanilla women I know) have an affinity for being romanced. Lots of little things can really mean a lot. Last night when we were talking Rook said, "Would you turn on your computer for a second and search on YouTube for ____ music video". I did and as it was playing he quietly remarked, "That says what I can't always find the words to say to you". It cost him nothing except effort but it truly touched me. Not only was he romantic, but he shared his feelings.


4. Do you believe in life on other worlds, and why?

Life? Yes. Intelligent life... probably. I think that it's pretty arrogant to think we're the only intelligent life in the universe but I do wonder why ET hasn't yet phoned us ;)


5. Have you ever done anything kinky involving chocolate?

Lots - I have this affinity for chocolate. Drizzling chocolate on particular body parts and teasingly licking it off is a favorite. I like oral sex anyway but chocolate makes it extra yummy ;)

Once in a previous relationship we were staying in a hotel room and we'd forgotten to put the "do not disturb" sign on the door. Our first mistake. Then that morning after he'd gone across the hall to get some ice for my diet soda he failed to secure the privacy bolt when he came back in. The final (and biggest mistake) was deciding to stay another night. We called down to tell the front desk to charge another night to the credit card but apparently the housekeeping service didn't receive that info and thus thought the room was empty.

We were having a grand time playing - he was tied to the bed with some silk scarves and was covered in chocolate syrup. I was straddling his legs licking chocolate syrup off his tummy working my way up to his chest when the door opened and the maid walked in. She looked at him, then me, winked, and walked back out.

We laughed for 10 minutes.

Then, we thought about what COULD have happened and we laughed even more.