Interview Me(me) Continued
The response to my last "Interview Me" post was great and so much fun! I'm trying to catch up now so if you haven't yet been asked your questions, look for them in the comments section of this post. If they are not there now, check back later Wednesday evening. I'll be back home then and I'll be sure and get them done by then.
If you haven't already asked to be interviewed, don't be hesitant if it sounds like fun to you. I know there were a lot of people responding, but you don't have to feel as if you're going to overwhelm me. I can always come up with questions as long as you are patient in waiting for your turn.
As a refresher, here's what you do.
- Leave me a comment saying, “Interview me.”
- I will respond by asking you five personal questions, which I will leave for you in my Comments section.
- If I don’t know you that well, the questions will probably be easy and fun.
- If I think I know you pretty well, then expect the questions to be a little more personal.
- To answer them, you must repost the questions along with your answers in your journal/blog. If you don't have a journal/blog then you may answer the questions here in my comments section.
- Then, make sure to include this explanation of how it works, and offer to interview anyone else who asks.
A few additions.
- If I've asked someone else a question that you'd like to answer, by all means please do.
- If you'd like to ask me a set of questions, feel free whether it's one question or ten.
- If you've answered your questions on your blog and I've yet to comment, or if you've asked your questions of me and I've yet to answer, please let me know. This sort of ballooned and I'm afraid I'll inadvertently miss someone.
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posted by Lady Julia @ 12:43 AM
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Oldbear :) So sweet of you to offer to participate.
1) Your beloved and you have been invited to travel and stay as the guest of a wealthy person from a foreign country. Your trip will cost you nothing. Where would you want to go, in what sort of lodging would you like to stay, and what sort of touristy things would you like to do while you are there? (Smiles - yes I know that's three questions but they are all related.)
2) What's the one piece of advice you would give to men who want to submit to their wives? I know there are many things to say, but what's the most important thing for them to know?
3) What are your thoughts on hypnosis, erotic or otherwise? Is it something you have tried or would like to try?
4) Should your wife be so inclined to spend an evening doing all sorts of kinky things to you, what would be the top three on your wish list?
5) You've been given $50,000 with the proviso that you do something totally decadent. What do you do?
Collared_Mark, let me see what I can ask of you..
1) If you could invite any five people to dinner, who would you invite?
2) Your Mistress has achieved something special (perhaps a promotion at work). You want to do something wonderful for her to celebrate her success. What do you do?
3) What do you think are three of the most important qualities for a submissive to possess?
4) You have two tickets to attend a concert. The band/group/singer is one you've wanted to see for a very long time but for some reason you have been unable to do so. Who will be performing?
5) Assuming that nothing in life, not even dominance and submission, is 100 percent perfect and to our liking. What is your least favorite thing about being submissive or submitting?
Aradia :) So nice to be given the opportunity to interview you.
1) What qualities do you feel are a must for a dominant woman to possess?
2) Of all the kinky activites at your disposal, what three do you most enjoy and why?
3) Do you agree with this statement: "in a D/s relationship the submissive is the one who really has all the power." Why or why not?
4) What qualities do you feel a good submissive should possess?
5) Have you always been the dominant one in your relationships?
Catwoman, wonderful! I'm sure everyone will really look forward to your responses.
1) At what age did you notice that you were more dominant in your interactions with men? Was there a defining moment or did it happen gradually?
2) What three women would you point to as your role models and why?
3) It's Friday evening, the weekend is before you and you have absolutely no plans. Slavekal has been a very good fella for some time. You've decided as a reward that he will be allowed to do something especially wonderful for you for the weekend. Assume that money is not an issue. What would you allow him to do?
4) What items things are found in your Domme toy bag (box, closet, dungeon)?
5) You're at a party and speaking with a man who has never been in a power exchange relationship nor has he ever explored any of his kinks. How would you recommend he begin to learn more about how he feels and also how he should begin to explore his kinks?
TVH :) I was hoping you'd volunteer. I'm going to think about your questions and post them later today. I'm not sure.. perhaps I'll go easy on you or perhaps I'll choose some to make you squirm a bit ;)
Would you interview me?
TVH :) Your questions are..
1) Ed McMahon just rang your doorbell. You've won and you've won big! Ed informs you that there's a new rule and that, in order to receive the full ga-zillion dollars that you've won, you must spent $50,000 totally selfishly AND within the next 24 hours. If you don't, you'll forfeit your winnings. How would you spend the $50,000?
2) You've met a woman with whom you are completely mesmerized. You want to draw the two of you closer together without coming on too strong. What do you do?
3) If you could have been the male lead in any movie, which role would you have played and why?
4) Which three people do you most admire and why?
5) You're spending an evening at home with a sexually adventurous partner. She switches just as you do. From the Dom role, which three kinky activities would you choose to pursue? From the submissive role, which three kinky activities would you most hope she chose?
gamma, I do so enjoy the thought of interviewing you ;)
1) List three women that you admire and explain why you admire them.
2) If you coud acquire any skill that you do not currently possess, what skill would it be?
3) You have the opportunity to travel (with Dr Who - wink) into either the future or back into the past. When and where do you go and why?
4) We all have a list of kinky things that we enjoy and another list of things we do not. On the "I don't think I would enjoy this list" are obviously some hard limits but there are usually also things there that perhaps we are just not be ready yet to pursue. What are two things you are not really ready to experience just now but realize you could be ready to experience in the future? Assume that the mere fact that you're stretching will be enough to excite your Mistress and make the idea oh so appealing to her.
5) Your Mistress has taken complete control of your masturbating and sexual habits. You are only allowed to release at her whim. How difficult do you believe you would find this without a chastity device? (Or, has this ever happened to you? If it has, how was this level of surrender attained?)
Dick.. I admit that your request is a surprise.
1) Have you ever considered starting your own blog? Why, why not?
2) List three women that you admire and why you admire them.
3) You've been given $50,000 with the proviso that you do something totally decadent. What do you do?
4) What are three things you enjoy doing in your spare time?
5) Why do you persist in posting comments on my blog when you obviously think I know nothing about female dominance?
TVH :) Your questions are..
1) Ed McMahon just rang your doorbell. You've won and you've won big! Ed informs you that there's a new rule and that, in order to receive the full ga-zillion dollars that you've won, you must spent $50,000 totally selfishly AND within the next 24 hours. If you don't, you'll forfeit your winnings. How would you spend the $50,000?
This one is easy. I’d buy myself a brand new BMW 3 series. Then I’d drive to the best leather and latex vendor I could find and spend the rest renewing my wardrobe – boots with decadent 5 inch heels, cat suit, leather corset (yum), shoulder length gloves, that kind of sensuous attire, then repeat it again in latex (which I’ve never tried but seemed to have developed a curiosity about). Decked out, identify hidden by cat-woman style head-gear, its back to the car for a romp through the country enjoying the sensations of the ultimate driving machine and the ultimate erotic outfit!
2) You've met a woman with whom you are completely mesmerized. You want to draw the two of you closer together without coming on too strong. What do you do?
If I had this down maybe I wouldn’t be single! Quip aside, much like I posted about a romantic evening. If she is mesmerizing me its because she has that magic blend of femininity and confidence. I would draw her close by talking to her, getting to know who she is, her values, loves hates, fears, hopes and dreams. Does she like to cook? Does she like wine. Subtly letting her know the things I find attractive about her. Answering her questions as honestly as I can, but letting her talk about herself. If things are going well I might move the conversation towards what she finds sexy? Does she like fine lingerie? What are her favourite things (“I bet you look stunning”, I say). The moral here is drawing close is about connecting and communicating. What I don’t know how to do though is to find out, without coming on too strong, if she is a Dominant type, because I’ve assumed that because of her confidence.
3) If you could have been the male lead in any movie, which role would you have played and why?
Johnny Depp – Captain Jack Sparrow in Pirates of the Caribbean. Jack is a rough and tumble rogue with an innate intelligence and sense of humour. Besides, women seem to melt for pirates, and it takes a strong woman to win the heart of a pirate!
4) Which three people do you most admire and why?
I probably answer this differently every time I answer it.
1. Walter Cronkite – a pillar of integrity and when I actually met him in person he was the same man I’d watched as a kid doing The 20th Century series.
2. Elizabeth Hurley – just plain sexy sexy sexy (ok that’s more lust than admiration so 2 more)
2. (Name Withheld) - my first woman boss and the best mentor I ever had. She was the epitome of honour, class, and compassion. Her mantra was “firm but fair”. She was a philanthropist and a brilliant leader. She taught me how to lead and motivate people, and how to make tough decisions.
3. Gordon Lightfoot – Canadian folk balladeer and hero. His music inspired me and helped me through some tough times. And, though I cannot read music to any utile extent, his music inspired me to learn how to pluck away at acoustic guitar. My folk couldn’t afford to pay for music lessons when I was young – so learning chords from a song book and trying to sound like him was the next best thing.
5) You're spending an evening at home with a sexually adventurous partner. She switches just as you do. From the Dom role, which three kinky activities would you choose to pursue? From the submissive role, which three kinky activities would you most hope she chose?
Oh boy – a dream come true!
As the Dom, bondage of course, erotic (i.e. not abusive) spanking, and keeping her aroused and on the edge of orgasm. (is that 3?)
Just in case – kink 1 – her tied in different positions but a favourite fantasy would have her hands overhead, legs spread, decadently high heels, a corset tight enough that she KNOWS it plus 1 drop. A nice gag would top this off – there’s something wonderful about the mewing of a nicely gagged and horny woman. Maybe a few selected toys – vibrator to tease her aching pussy. Me deciding when to allow her orgasm, or not.
Kink 2 – her on her hands and knees giving me oral pleasure
Kink 3 – her wrapped head to toe in cling wrap, deeply hypnotized so that by saying key words I can make her orgasm, or better still stay so close to orgasm but not be able to release.
As the sub, (grin) kink 1 bondage of course, erotic (i.e. not abusive) spanking, and being kept on the edge of orgasm – basically tables turned
Kink 2 – “forced feminization” - she catches me en femme, then “punishes” me by making me serve her, knowing that she will not let me release as long as I am dressed
Kink 3 - deeply hypnotized and completely under her control. My pleasure under her control. My pleasing of her under her control. Wanting only to obey.
And as suggested, this is my offer to interview somone who might ask.
p.s. as I do not have a blog thank you Lady Julia for aloowing me to respond via this comment.
TVH
RAB, you didn't ask, but I know you want to answer.. ;)
1) You have been granted the ability to step into the pages of any comic book. Into which one would you step?
2) What qualities does your ideal Lady possess?
3) If you could choose another profession, would you? If so, which one and why? Assume you have the talent, money, and physical ability to do anything you wish.
4) You've been given 7 days in which you may do whatever you want, money and time no object. What would you do?
5) You've been named one of the sexiest men I know in my annual "Stud Muffin Contest". Let me hear your acceptance speech.
TVH, thank you for your answers. I enjoyed your "romantic evening" response in my group and thought you were right on target with your response to drawing a lady closer to you through talking to her and showing an interest in who she is.
1) You have been granted the ability to step into the pages of any comic book. Into which one would you step?
This is tricky, because the stories you like to read aren't necessarily about situations you'd want to experience. Most lovers of horror fiction wouldn't actually want to be murdered by a zombie serial killer, you know? A lot of the stuff I love to read is pretty dark, but to live in it? Not so much. That said...it would have to be a superhero comic, with flying and superpowers and brightly-colored costumes. Otherwise what's the point of stepping into a comic? Anything more realistic and you might as well be stepping into a novel or a movie. So I'm going to pick the Legion of Super-Heroes, specifically the original version from the Sixties. Set in a very upbeat, utopian 30th Century future in which everything is clean and safe, the ice cream parlors have flavors from all the planets, and people fly around with anti-gravity belts and flight rings. There are thrilling adventures and romances and the good guys always win in the end. Either that or something with funny talking animals.
2) What qualities does your ideal Lady possess?
My ideal lady would definitely not be submissive 24/7. She'd be someone strong and capable in the public world who welcomes being submissive in private as an escape from having to be responsible and in control all the time. Just as I'm someone who's very accomodating and deferential and mild-mannered in public, but in private I need the opposite of that. I'm also more into offering praise and cherishing than punishment, so she would be someone who finds phrases like "you're a good girl, I'm proud of you" sexy and arousing.
3) If you could choose another profession, would you? If so, which one and why?
I'm doing what I want to do right now...but if I couldn't do that, I'd learn to be a chef. Another I would have liked to do is be a performing musician, but I never became proficient enough on guitar for my own satisfaction to perform for other people.
4) You've been given 7 days in which you may do whatever you want, money and time no object. What would you do?
Eat in all the finest and most expensive restaurants I can cover in seven days. All the meals I'll never get a chance to try because I'll never spend $200 on a single plate of food. Just to find out what I've been missing all these years! In so short a time I don't know if I'd even make it out of New York City; given more time I'd just keep going around the world, eating and travelling. Probably wash ashore on a beach in New Zealand weighing 400 pounds and unable to sit up.
5) You've been named one of the sexiest men I know in my annual "Stud Muffin Contest". Let me hear your acceptance speech.
"I'd like to thank the students at this School for the Blind for this award. As I told you during the interview, we professional bodybuilders/weightlifters/volunteer firemen rarely receive such acclaim purely for our looks and physique, so I accept this trophy on behalf of us all. I must confess that when I told you my application form was tattooed on my body in Braille, it was merely a cheap ploy to have lots of blind women feel me up. I'm sorry about misleading you this way; nonetheless, I hope you enjoyed getting a handle on my qualifications as much as I did. Really, it's an honor just to be nominated."
If I dare be so presumptuous, may I now interview you Lady Julia?
Here are my five questions if you feel inclined to allow me this privilege.
1. Other than your favourite cowgirl outfit, do you have an outfit that makes you feel great and "uber sexy".
2. What is your favourite food and favourite dessert?
3. What kind of things do you think a man should do to bring him closer to a woman and arouse her interest?
4. Do you believe in life on other worlds, and why?
5. Have you ever done anything kinky involving chocolate?
TVH
RAB, your "stud muffin" speech - too funny :)
"I'm doing what I want to do right now..."
That's a pretty awesome statement as so few people can truthfully utter it.
Not sure if the interview me is over.....but i am keen.
interview me please.
tim
Tim, it's definitely not too late :)
1) You've been given the opportunity to star in a movie. What style of movie is it and who would you like to be your co-star?
2) What about a woman makes her sexy to you?
3) You've been given $10,000 to spend on something totally decadent. How do you spend it?
4) If you could eliminate three things from the world, what would you eliminate?
5) You're planning a romantic evening for your partner - an evening all about her. What will you do? (Money isn't a concern.)
Hope I get the procedure right. I have copied the questions and I will paste them in my blog and prepare the answers. I intend to post the answers in my blog and will do the same here. Give me a few days. Looking forward to this.
Catwoman, I'm looking forward to reading your responses :)
Whew! Found the spot where you first asked me my interview questions. Hope I am doing this according to your instructions:
The lovely Lady Julia invited fellow bloggers to answer interview questions, I got mine on April 4th. Thanks Lady Julia! The following are her questions to me and my answers:
1) At what age did you notice that you were more dominant in your interactions with men? Was there a defining moment or did it happen gradually?
I have had feelings of dominance since I was about six years old. I believe I've had several defining moments. Each one like a road sign indicating I'm headed in the right direction. I would pretend to have someone tied spread eagled to the wall in my room. I would pretend to cut off their clothes and punish them for imagined wrongdoings. After a while I would get very aroused and take a break to alleviate the tension.
The feelings and ideas continued throughout elementary school. In first grade (or so) I would pretend to be Catwoman. While on the playground at recess one day, I shoved a boy in the chest with my foot, having manufactured the moment just so I could do that move. I was imitating that scene when Catwoman shoves poor fortunate henchman Felix. The boy looked stunned but did not do anything. I remember getting a rush, a feeling of power from doing that.
When I started dating in high school, I remember I was once kissing a guy on the couch. I was kissing and nibbling on his neck. He was getting very turned on. At one point he gasped and said "stop!" I got that rush again. I loved knowing that I could arouse him and push him to the edge. After that, I prided myself on taking my time to tease and turn a guy on so much that he could barely contain himself. That remains a component of my Modus Operandi to this day. In my 20's, my interactions with men were very positive. But I did not identify my ideas as dominant. It was not until I was in my 30's that I actively pursued my dominance. I started 4 years ago and I have not looked back. The next Big One was the night I met s2c, by far the biggest road sign saying "Hey! This Way!"
2) What three women would you point to as your role models and why?
A) Catwoman of course. She had men and Batman/the world at her feet. She was independent.
She was insanely sexy, even I was affected by her image. I wanted (and got) that costume, I wanted that golden belt slung from my hips.
B) My Mom. Although what I learned from her was a mixed message of what was a woman's role, as an adult, I now understand a lot of the things she would tell me. Then, I did not understand when she told me that in order to get the best from a man, a woman must occasionally give him something to which to aspire. Occasionally tell him that something he did was not right, and it would send him scrambling to fix it or do better. I used to think that 'manufacturing' inadequacies was mean. But now with my Femdom glasses, I can better interpret what she was telling me. I also had her as an example for a good work ethic and the ability to "read" people. She is far superior in that skill than I am, she is a natural but with a lot of practice, I have been able to use that "it factor" to analyze situations.
C) My Grandmother. She was a bitch, but a good bitch. She was married twice and, along with her husband(s), succesfully raised 10 children. I only know of her having worked outside the home once in her life and she never drove. By the strength and power of her personality, she got her kids an education and through college. She herself only had an 8th Grade education. A person cannot accomplish all that and be soft or a pushover. If anyone were to call me a bitch, I'd be kind of jazzed by that, I think of her.
3) It's Friday evening, the weekend is before you and you have absolutely no plans. Slavekal has been a very good fella for some time. You've decided as a reward that he will be allowed to do something especially wonderful for you for the weekend. Assume that money is not an issue. What would you allow him to do?
I would allow him to arrange a weekend trip out to New York or out of the country, like England to party at Club Pedestal. I would have him arrange for a horsedrawn carriage through the countryside, with him as the horse. I would want a luxury suite with butler and/or maid.
I'd also be interested in s2c organizing a kidnapping scenario. Where he or another hapless victim gets abducted and taken to an OWK-type place or a bed and breakfast with a dungeon and grounds with a stable and all kinds of toys and equipment.
4) What items things are found in your Domme toy bag (box, closet, dungeon)?
S2c came with his own accessories and I have since added on a few things of my own: I have Nylon whip (my new favorite), over-the-door leather straps that instantly convert a door frame into bondage equipment, a saddle, riding crops, nipple clamps. S2c got me a pedestal and throne, smother box, smother bench, rickshaw, various costumes.
5) You're at a party and speaking with a man who has never been in a power exchange relationship nor has he ever explored any of his kinks. How would you recommend he begin to learn more about how he feels and also how he should begin to explore his kinks?
S2c and I host Femdom parties, I'd have him attend a party so that he is, for an evening, immersed in a D/s dynamic. Nothing beats a real time experience and I'd be emphasizing that above all. I'd encourage him to get actively involved in his local bdsm community. And while it may fall on deaf ears, I'd tell him to get educated about the lifestyle and what it is really like be a submissive. There are so many online resources and literature in print that it would be hard for a person to be unable to find material.
If he is looking to meet people or a Domme in particular, I'd encourage him to view online as a supplement to his search. Nothing beats real time.
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