Home Again and Other Things

Image creator Olivia DeBerardini

I would have posted this image yesterday but I wanted to give Dan's tush a spot all its own ;)

Things seem calmer now with my parents so Bill and I were able to return home this afternoon. I'm going to write a bit, catch up on a couple of blogs, and then take a nap out by the pool. (The forecast for today proclaimed there would be "abundant sunshine". Who can pass on that? :) Later I'll post some more interview questions, answer some that have been asked of me, and try to respond to some of the email I've received the past few days.

On the way home I was thinking about my fella and how much I miss him. It's during busy times like these that I realize how happy I am and how appreciative I am that he is so strong. Not necessarily so that I can lean on him (although emotionally he is always there when I am upset), but because I know his surrender doesn't require me to tell him every single thing to do or even anything to do on a daily basis. He's an adult and he carries on doing what he needs to do regardless of my immediate direction. With things that pertain to us, he merely asks himself what he believes I would want and that is what he does. He's been trained well so he knows what to do in my absence and he continues to feel my control. Actually, it's all quite simple.

He's also understanding if there is nothing overtly D/s or sexual occurring between us during those times when life becomes so hectic. There's no manipulation of any sort including no attempts to make me feel guilty. He knows eventually things will come back to a more playful, sexy normalcy and he waits without complaint.

When things return to normal he knows that he'll receive a delicious reward for his understanding behavior. I am certain that right now he's wondering what will be happening in the near future. That sweet torment begins again and thanks to him we can both enjoy it.

I love you my dearest pet. You're wonderful.