Interview Me(me)

I like these meme things as they're a fun way to get to know more about people. Thanks to Tom, I've found another that interests me.

Here's how it works. (Oh, by the way my instructions are pretty much blatantly stolen from Tom Allen's blog - thank you Tom.)


The Rules:

• Leave me a comment saying, “Interview me.”
• I will respond by asking you five personal questions, which I will leave for you in my Comments section.
• If I don’t know you that well, the questions will probably be easy and fun.
• If I think I know you pretty well, then expect the questions to be a little more personal.
• To answer them, you must repost the questions along with your answers in your journal/blog. If you don't have a journal/blog then you may answer the questions here in my comments section.
• Then, make sure to include this explanation of how it works, and offer to interview anyone else who asks.
  

Simple enough, yes?

Now, to Tom's questions for me. Interesting choice of questions, Tom :) Perhaps you'll allow me to interview you as well?..


Would you get cosmetic surgery, and why/why not?

I can honestly say I've never even thought about it. My nose is fine as far as I'm concerned, my lips are full, and my creator was more than generous when issuing breasts. I think I'd probably pass.


Would your outlook on D/s or sexuality be different if you were not a nurse/caregiver? How?

Interesting question. I'd have to say yes especially as most of my professional background is in psychiatric nursing/therapy . What really turns me on about much of sex and D/s is the mental aspect. Sure the physical is mm mm good even when I am not thinking at all, but I like toying with his mind, conditioning him to respond certain ways, and watching for the verbal and behavioral clues to what's going on inside his mind. Also, if it were not for my education and my career experience, I'm not sure I would have truly learned to appreciate the power of words and their impact of sex and D/s. Since I have, I'm often very selective in what I say and how (tone and inflection) that I say it. With regard to hypno D/s and erotic hypnosis, I'm almost certain I would have never have opened my mind to learning more about it had I not had this particular career background.

Aside for the psych aspect of it all, I guess I am also more cautious than I would have been if I weren't a nurse. I'm more careful with most things I say and do because I realize how easy it would be to hurt him. Sometimes that's a good thing and sometimes it keeps me from exploring areas that sound fun but seem a bit too close to the line between safe/unsafe.


You are transported to an area with no submissive men available. How do you amuse yourself with the vanillas?

I can't imagine that I'd really be all that different than I am when I meet submissive men. Since my dominance style is a bit less "out there" than some, I don't really know that they would realize they were being dominated until it was too late... I save the cuffs and cock whips until after they are appropriately seduced, trained, and begging for it ;)


What is your sex life going to be like in fifteen years?

Just like it is right now. Obviously we'll adjust if our bodies don't cooperate as well as they do today, but otherwise I can't see my interest waning in the slightest. I like sex - a lot. I like being playful and doing exciting things. I'm imaginative. I think I can still stir up enough enthusiasm (both in him and me) when I'm 60.


Boxers or briefs? And thongs or french cuts?

For him, boxer briefs. Sometimes. Sometimes nothing at all. For me, I often don't wear any at all. When I do, french cut feels better but thongs have a little more eye appeal. It's funny. As a younger women I spent so much money looking for underwear that didn't ride up on me and now, as a woman much more comfortable with my body and my sexuality, I find myself paying $30 or more for a whisp of material designed to fit right in the spot I previously avoided. Go figure ;)