How Does It Feel....
Recently toy posed the following:
"'How does it feel to be desired by every man and envied by every woman?'"
That's a question for You Lady Julia. While it may not be every man and every woman it is obvious You are desired by so many men. How does it feel?"
Honestly, it would be easy to buy into the illusion that all the men who write to me expressing their infatuation are truly enamored but the truth of the matter is, while some are sincere, most are really only enamored of the idea of being dominated - not by me in particular - but by any Domme. In my every day life I have a small circle of admirers and before I met Rook I never sat home if I wanted to go out. I wasn't looking for a man when I met him - it was just one of those nice quirks of fate that I did :)
Does it feel nice to be desired by those who are sincere? Sure :) I'd be lying if I said it didn't. I'm an average looking woman, not some drop dead gorgeous babe and ordinarily I wouldn't be the sort of woman who would immediately garner attention when I walked into a room or when I entered a conversation. I think being dominant and self-confident go a long way when it comes to attracting male attention - any male attention, not just that of submissive men.
posted by Lady Julia @ 8:34 PM
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Hi Lady, you are ohhh so right on!, I agree many of the more extreme doormat subs are yearning for acknowledgemnet by A woman, ANY woman, or or just trying to project their fantasies onto another person for the human interaction.
And I find from personal experience the last part of yur last sentence is so true, I have always ben attracted to vanilla women who where more confident, even if they were above me socially, economically, in age, or education level. Their confidence was not intimidating, except maybe in a fetish sense. Sense I valued myself , even as a subbie, I wanted to be with a high quality , asured person!
Even as a dom that is true as well. why would I want a doormat for a submissive?
I have had very pleasant experiences working with passive shy young ladies as vanilla GFs and as subbie wanna-bes, but that is more of a romantic "build their confidence in their beauty as woman and their inherent right to pride and dignity so long as they act like a decnet human" kind of training. Not a real D/s dynamic. At least for me. But I am not a super Dom with oodles of experience like these guys with 30 years as a F/T dom. My stuff on both sides of the coin was based on honest youthful searching for truth and sexual and EMOTIONAL fulfillment.
One of the reasons I love Lady Julias stuff is because so much of it is based on the desire of men for women, and I believe that is a universal fuel that is a strong element in all passionate relationships, even maledom ones!
GLAD yuo are better dn things have clamed down
Great Lady!
OldBear.
"I'm an average looking woman, not some drop dead gorgeous babe." Why don't you post a photo of yourself or at least describe yourself?
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