This and That
I've been going through my email box this afternoon. My oh my. There's now a little over 2000 messages there and some of them are dated the first of January. Since things have calmed down for the moment I'm determined to catch up this weekend.
If you're a member of my YahooGroup and you've written to me requesting my MP3s, I'd like for you to resend that request to my friend gamma at gamma_1963 @ yahoo.co.uk (In your request be sure and include the Yahoo ID you use in my group.) He's offered to send out the URLs for those people who have requested them in the past month and who continue to wait (thank you gamma - you're a darlin').
Bill and my father are doing ok for the moment. Thanks to everyone who has written to ask. Things remain hectic but we're all in pretty good spirits at the moment.
I'm headed out to the bookstore for a bit this afternoon. That's my escape place :) I'll write more later. Before I leave, I wanted to post a link to this article. I believe I know what most of you would say in response to the advice Dr Laura has allegedly given, but I thought I'd open it up for discussion anyway. Is there any grain of truth at all inbedded in her 1950's philsophy? Should women (and men) feel some sense of obligation towards meeting the sexual needs of their partner?
(P.S. You may be wondering, what does the photo above have to do with this entry? Not a thing - I just think it's uber sexy ;) Enjoy your day. )
~ Lady J
posted by Lady Julia @ 2:24 PM
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The Photo is great!! And thank you for keeping us informed while you are so busy.
The link was interesting.
There are obligations and gifts in a marriage. It depends on how you consider it- one can turn anything you to a gift and this makes things go better. I don't like obligations, but I love gifts in both directions and I don't count them.
Sex is special- there can never be an obligation, but sometimes gifts are wonderful, when they are not expected. And -having read for example Lady Misato-, gifts can be very useful too.
As much as I hate to say it, I agree with most of this. But really, I don't want to be intimimate with someone who doesn't want to be intimate with me. Maybe that is part of the reason some people are submissive...they know that when intimacy happens, their domme wants it.
J
P.S. I still think Dr. Laura is basically a %^#$%^ and tries to guilt people and ruin relationships, although I must admit this is the first thing that I have heard from her in at least 8 years, maybe more so maybe she has changed...but I doubt it.
i didn't read Dr Laura's article but i liked what this columnist had to say.
"These aren't issues only for women. Men confront the same. When either partner is indifferent to the other's longings, sexual or otherwise, the marriage becomes a cold house with no lights on. Who wants to live there?"
Some people say that what the submissive needs and wants doesn't matter but i think if you are in a long term relationship this is not true. It's up to the Domme to decide how and when these needs are met but if She totally neglected Her submissive eventually She would be alone.
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