Christmas Eve Eve This and That
It's almost Christmas. I hope that wherever you are and whatever you're doing, you'll find that you're warm and happy.
Rook is away spending Christmas with his mother while I'm going to be here with Bill and my parents. I miss him, but I would never ask him to leave his mom alone at Christmas and I have no intention of leaving Bill and my parents this year.
So, the weekend will be a quiet, relaxing one. After the last few months I'm ready for that. I've picked out some DVDs to watch, have a fridge and pantry full of easy to fix Christmasy things, and have most of my shopping done. (I always go shopping on Christmas Eve - it's a ritual that started when I was five or six.)
One of my newer acquaintances mentioned that my plans didn't seem very "Domme-like". I wonder if he thinks that being a Domme is everything about me? Everything I do? How sad it is to limit a woman to only one facet of her personality. I could never be with a man who couldn't appreciate the young girl in me. No matter how old, I cannot imagine not enjoying playful teasing and giggling. Or the softer side who loves to be cradled in his arms and feel his fingers caressing my cheek? I believe this expectation that dominant women will be "on" all the time is one of the things that make men push their wives too hard and too far when they agree to explore a FemDom/LFA relationship.
Smiles. I got off on a rant, didn't I? Let's see.. what else was I going to tell you. Oh, I stumbled across another blog that I've recently discovered. GreyOwl CO is a very new journal reflecting garry's thoughts as he and his wife explore orgasm control. Fresh and honest writing - I think you'll enjoy.
I suppose that's all for now. I'm being distracted by Cary Grant on DVD and emails from charming men.
More later :)
posted by Lady Julia @ 9:44 AM
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Happy Holidays to you. Once again, you hit the nail right onthe head. I agree that it is unfair to limit a Domme to only one facet of her personality or her life in general. Who wouldn't a woman who us a Domme also enjoy the holidays, or get sentimental?
Cary Grant - yummy! I'll take him at any stage of his life, young, middle aged, old...woof! The only contemporary equivalent in my mind might be George Clooney.
I can't imagine the amount of energy it would take for a domme to always be "on," or for a submissive man to live with a domme who is. For may of us in this lifestyle, especially around the holidays, life can be pretty much straight vanilla. For me, the biggest thrill of all is knowing what lies beneath the soft, feminine, loving, caring mother and wife whom I worship.
Catwoman, I so agree about Cary Grant. I saw "The Bishop's Wife" and "Houseboat". That era held such charm and elegance.
Thank you and also Veezknight for your comments :)
Veezknight said, "For me, the biggest thrill of all is knowing what lies beneath the soft, feminine, loving, caring mother and wife whom I worship."
Such wise words. When men begin approaching their wives or girlfriends about dominating them, that perspective should always be at the forefront of their minds. When you lose sight of the woman in pursuit of the kink, you've lost.
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