Wax and Ice Play
We had an interesting and very stimulating discussion a couple of nights ago about wax and ice play. While I've utilized ice before, I've never tried wax. (Yes, I know - an experienced Domme who has never used wax? It's just something that never really appealed to me before for some reason.) So, as I always do when I'm considering trying something new, I've been researching a bit.
It would appear that there is a vast array of candles one can purchase from kink sites, all professing to be safer than candles one can purchase in stores. I want to play safe, but I don't want to waste a lot of money on "specialty" candles when I can buy something that is exactly the same at a department store. I know some of you have experience with this, so where did/do you buy your wax and what did you buy? Any safety tips or a non-commercial reference source online that is accurate? I also want to combine wax and ice in the same session. Any special precautions when using both?
The mental aspect of wax play is something that is far easier for me to grasp ;) I can already imagine what thoughts will be passing through his mind as he is lying there bound.. anticipating each drop.. wondering where and when each will fall. Gasping as the cold alternately touches his skin...
Smiles - it's definitely getting warm in here.
posted by Lady Julia @ 1:27 PM
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OH MY! ;) I love the idea of ice and wax together. I have one thought; be careful if he has chest hair. :D the wax can cause some cleanup problems.
if chest hair is a problem use saran wrap (gladwrap) over the area first.
these might give you some more ideas Lady Julia
Wax play ideas
wax melting safety from CollarNcuffs.com
Try the cheapest white votive candles you can find at first. You can buy them at the Dollar Store. They have the fewest additives. Anything in a candle to make it last longer means that the melting point is higher and wil make it more likely to burn.
Have a wash cloth or ice handy to cool the wax quickly if you need to.
Coat him with a thin film of mineral oil or baby oil first as this makes removing the wax a lot easier.
Watch out for splatter. Don't get too near the face until you know how far the splatter extends.
Thank you for the info everyone.
I had browsed your site before, Bonnie, but I must have missed those pages. I was certain you would be a good resouce.
A wonderful way to remove the wax is using a knife, its very sexy and a hell of a mind fuck.
Wax is fun, but can be messy.
Destiny
If you have never fucked him with a strap-on and you have never used wax then how can you call yourself a Domina? Next you will say that you have never held a whip. You act as if you are an expert on BDSM yet you have done nothing?
Your refrain is getting old dick. There are many intelligent people who find intense pleasure and satisfaction from the emotional and intellectual nuances of a D/s relationship. A dominant does not have to be a sadist. A submissive is not required to be a masochist.
Smiles - I never claimed to be an expert on anything. This is my place in cyberspace to share my thoughts - that's all.
I have actually held a whip - it was during a play (I was in amateur theater for a few years). Frankly that's as close to using one as I ever want to be. I'm not a sadist. Perhaps you're not aware that being dominant and being a sadist is not synonymous?
good candles to use are the white ones in glass jars that are often sold in ethnic grocery stores. they are almost pure parafin, so have a lower melting point. when dripping, start high and move lower until you get the reaction you want. enjoy!
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