Mind Control
It's almost 1am here in the City. I'm lying alone on a rock hard bed in a hotel room, unable to sleep. Poor planning on my part, huh? ;)
Yesterday I didn't have time to share this story so I thought I'd use this insomniac moment to my advantage and tell you about it.
About 3:00 or 3:30 in the morning Sunday I heard very loud knocking on my bedroom door. Thinking Bill was ill and needed me, I jumped up and rushed to the door, tripping over the tangle of covers from my bed as I did. When I yanked open the door, there stood Bill with a big goofy grin on his face.
Breakfast. He wanted to go out for breakfast.
After inquiring after his sanity, I grudgingly agreed. Going out and having someone serve me was certainly better than me having to cook it myself and I was just thrilled that the side effects from his last round of chemo had worn off enough that he felt like going. Making a mental note to order up a houseboy to do future cooking and chores, I trudged out to the car behind him.
Have you ever been to Denny's (or some place similiar) at 3:30 in the morning? What an interesting array of characters one finds at that time of the night. A table full of rowdy young fellas were seated just behind us and across the way a couple that I'm almost certain was a M/f couple. He declined table service from the waitress, informing her that "my girl will come to the counter to pick up our order to save your steps." Girl jumped up a couple of times to get things and when she returned, she would stand quietly awaiting his nod of permission before sitting. Since I live in a not-very-large Southern town, it's almost unheard of to see anything openly D/s, but I suppose if I paid more attention I would catch the less overt examples like this one. It felt nice to watch them.
As we sat there awaiting our order, I was grumbling a bit in fun about Bill being a thoughtless boss for dragging me out of my nice warm bed when I was so sleepy. He laughingly remarked that perhaps my sleepy state would allow him to turn the tables for once, affording him the opportunity to hypnotize me. We continued to tease back and forth about hypnosis and what each of us would do to the other when we heard a fairly loud comment come from one of the fellas sitting at the table behind us.
It was his "very educated" opinion that only weak-willed and not very intelligent people could be hypnotized or have their minds controlled. No one would ever be able to hypnotize him or control his mind. Bill laughed and kicked me under the table. Apparently this was too good for him to resist.
He turned and informed the Arrogant One (as I began to refer to him in my mind) that I was an excellent hypnotist and that I could most certainly hypnotize him. The Arrogant One again asserted that he was far too intelligent and strong willed for his mind to be controlled.
Smiling slowly I remarked that numerous studies had shown that someone extremely intelligent and strong willed was in fact the absolute best subject due to their vast understanding and imagination. (A bit exaggerated but hey, I was having fun toying with this guy.) His buddies began to goad the Arrogant One, remarking that surely he would be the best hypnosis candidate possible. Surely he wouldn't be afraid to have a woman control his mind long enough to hypnotize him?
What could he say or do? His arrogant mind would allow for nothing less than for him to be hypnotized so he grudgingly agreed. Smiling, I did a movie version induction (the sort that is comprised of three or four sentences and would hypnotize absolutely no one. ) Very quickly he was "under". He followed all my suggestions: barking like a dog, talking like a girl to his buddy, and being the "maid" by cleaning up their table. When he was finished being my "hypnotized subject", I "brought him up".
"1, 2, 3, 4, 5 - wide awake and revert to normal."
The Arrogant One opened his eyes and grinned, remarking that he had fooled me by pretending. "I told you I was too smart and strong willed for you to control my mind."
Smiling in response I replied. "Of course you were. I certainly never controlled your mind when you were barking like a dog, talking like a girl to your friend, or cleaning this table like a maid. You would have done all that yourself if I hadn't been here..."
Arrogant men. So many strings begging to be tugged.
posted by Lady Julia @ 2:01 PM
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Good to see Bill is feeling better and that you, as always, are right on top of your game. Great story.
Your inference that you made him do this is bollocks. Cheap tricks do not mean you controlled his mind.
Seems to me that women control men's minds more often than we will admit. Quite the humorous story.
Lady Julia if I might ask why didn't you hypnotize him?
This man did everything Lady Julia suggested. By definition, that means she controlled his mind. One of the best ways of controlling someone is to get them to do exactly what you want them to while they think they are doing the opposite.
This was a great story.
lol eating a burger, or other vending machine goodies at 3:30 am is perfectly normal for some of us half of the time lol
Excellent and hilarious story.
To anonymous: she didn't in truth ever say, without humor and sarcasm (that you failed to catch), that she did control his mind. That's all part of the humor.
Hypnosis isn't what you think it is. As a matter of fact, you seem pretty threatened by the whole idea of a woman controlling your mind. Wonder what that's about? *giggles*
Goddess Kwan Yin
Mind Control doesn't always work in my opinion.If a woman wanted all of me all she would have to do is ask,not tell me to do things for her.Examples if she asked me,sweetie can you massage my back or make me some coffee? Of course I would,if she needed help doing chores around the house I gladly would help her.I would say to her all you have to do is ask,and it's yours.Dont boss me around,I am not your slave period.I was in a long distance relationship with a woman from Florida-she was absolutely wonderful towards me,and she always called me her Baby.She loved me more than she loved herself.Sex was great,we used to have so much fun together,we would laugh and joke with each other,we seldom argured.If there was a problem and there hardly was.She would sit down with me,and we would talk and work things out.I had planned on moving to Florida for her,but the Ultmiate blow came when she called an told me she had cancer.She lasted one year and died last year.She pleaded ith me to meet someone,I told her I would,but the more and more I explored the singles scene there is less romance and more dominance.As time went on I thought why should I be bossed around and controlled? Some of these women wanted to be treated as goddesses and worshipped.Other people say it's only a game don't take it to heart.In one way I do take it to heart.I have an Intensed fear of God
For worship is for God only.Because I am faithful to God and worship him only,I was given a special reward 4 years ago.I should have had Lung Cancer,my former Doctor said there was every indication I had it.Because of God's Supreme Powers I don't have it.I asked several dommes how would they like it,if a man bossed them around and expected to be served?They said No they wouldn't like it. When the shoe is on the other foot things become different.Will I ever find romance and happiness again with a woman who is willing to drop her guard 100% like I would have in the past.I seriously doubt it.That's life sometimes it's happy and sometimes it's sad.I have been alone over 4 years now and got used to it.I very seldom go on a date,dinner a movies and drinks are okay,but the passion of my kind of romance faded out.Do I miss going out with a woman who wears a cocktail dress 3/4 length and me decked out in a suit and tie,sitting down to a candle lit dinner.I sure do but those days are long gone.
*giggles* ... going by your evaluation of who can and cannot be hypnotized.. I don't think anonymous has a thing to worry about!!
*did I say that out loud???*
Defending The Lady
How can anyone act so arrogent at someone special who is there for him,when he has cancer? I think nurses are the unspoken heros of today and yesterday.They do so much and are stil there for people who are sick.They had to take an oath before they would work with patients.So the nurse had to be subjected to being embarassed by a man who has cancer.He wanted to act like a big shot in front of the guys.If I were there I would have pointed out to this man,that the nurse is more than a nurse.She has feelings of her own.She didn't deserve what she got in front of this mans friends.But she took it very well without folding under the pressure of being laughed at.She is bigger inside of her own heart than his heart.If someone were with her and she was treated with respect,she would have been thankful.As far as this cancer patient he owes her an apology,and instead of acting like a big shot to be impressive,he should be telling his friends how this nurse takes care of him and is a wonderful human being
That should say it all
because The Lady is a Champ.Sincerely Richie
Anonymous 2 - I didn't hypnotize him for a couple of reasons. First, he wasn't interested in being hypnotized, he was interested in being obnoxious. Second, I wanted to make a point. Arrogant people are the easiest to "control" (influence is a far better word. He always had control but I certainly influenced his decisions.)
Anonymous 3 - I think literal "mind control" is something that happens only in the movies or when someone is brainwashed. People and their desires can certainly be influenced, and, given enough time, they can be changed. This can be accomplished with hypnosis and without. Look at how people can be changed by their relationships especially over time. Their core values usually remain the same, but many less firm opinions, traits, etc can be and often are changed.
As for your comments about how a woman could get more from you by being nice and not being bossy, I think many people would say the same. I'm more of a sweetly persuasive person and not so bossy. That works for me and mine, but other people prefer direct bitchy bossiness. Whatever works best for each involved, no?
Of course Dommes don't want to be bossed around or controlled - that's the opposite of what we wish. Again, when Dommes control someone or boss them around, it should be someone who wants it - it's a consensual thing.
Regarding worship, I don't know what most people mean when they use the word "worship" in relation to their partner, but I tend to think most don't mean it in a religious sense. Intense devotion, perhaps? :)
I'm very sorry to read of your loss. Losing someone you love, especially to cancer, is devastating.
Richie - I wanted to thank you for springing to my defense but I think perhaps you misunderstood. Bill (the person with cancer) was not in any way attacking me. He was certainly teasing me but he wasn't being obnoxious in any way.
You're very sweet.
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