Faking It
I was reading a survey in which over 80 percent of women and up to 40 percent of men indicated they had faked an orgasm at least once. While I wasn't too surprised at the numbers of women responding in the affirmative, I was by the numbers of men. I thought I'd post a poll to check some numbers, but I'd also like to solicit comments asking those who vote "yes" to share their reasons why (feel totally free to leave anonymous comments on this one if you'd like).
posted by Lady Julia @ 6:36 PM
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I don't see why any guy would fake it.
i have faked an orgasm because my Mistress expects me, like most men, to cum every time i have sex. Sometimes i have had a lot of fun and pleased Her well buty i am losing my erection and i am not sure i can get it back so i have faked it just so that She won't worry.
I couldn't imagine hiding my real feelings from my wife (or hers from me) in such a situation. It suggests a one-night stand, doesn't it?
Because I order him too.
Mistress Jen
and yes. subchaos has faked it but only on direct order. Other than that...well he hasn't actually cum in a year this Nov. 15th.
Just to clarify for Mistress jen, jssubc stands for Jennifers sub chaos.
i would like to point out that in faking 101 i passed the attendance section but failed the moaning part. *grins*
Why should I? My wife only sometimes really wants me to have an orgasm, I never had to fake it than. I two or three times faked the other way round: I had an o. and just continued to act as if I had NOT, so she would not mind me serving her. She thinks when I am finished that I would not act so eagerly anymore and serving her would be only a sacrifice for me (i.e. not so pleasurable for her)She is right with that of course. Only sometimes I have such a drive that I really like to give anything to her, even when I´m just done.
i have faked it in a earlier relationship because my girlfriend want me to orgasm or she felt like something was wrong with her and what she was doing. i think it had much to do with her self-confidence being low. When i was with my late Mistress it was different. It would never occur to Her to think it was something She was doing wrong. She enjoyed controlling my pleasure both in denial and in allowing me to ejaculate. At times when i couldn't She would talk to me and if i knew the "why" i would tell Her. If i didn't, we would try to figure it out together. Sometimes there is no known why. It just was. By the time we began our relationship i was older and knew better than to lie to Her, even a lie that i thought i was telling to be kind.
Also i disagree with anonymous #2. In a one-night stand people don't usually care about the feelings of the other person. subbiehubbie indicated he faked because he cared about his wife's feelings. i believe surveys indicate this is a common reason for people of either sex to fake.
Mistress Jen if i may respectfully ask, why would You order him to fake it? Doesn't it defeat the purpose of faking if You know he is faking?
A few years back I was faking it because I was really stressed and tired. I must have overdone it because I started sounding like Meg Ryan in “When Harry met Sally.” Unusually vocal. I started to laugh which made my sweet husband start laughing. Busted. Turned out to be most fun I’ve had during sex without actually having an orgasm.
I suspect men might fake it if they feel they are losing their erection and begin to have performance anxiety.
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