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I thought I would take off the "approve comments" feature and see what would happen. I did this only last night and already the vultures are circling."It's ironic that your "changing focus" post is so obviously focused not on what you say you want but comes across as mostly a reaction to people who annoy you.
Something to consider: The negative emotions that we feel towards others (especially online) is not about the other person; in fact, what we perceive is our own mental construct and may have very little resemblence to the actual other person.
This fact is doubly true of all online acquaintances and long distance relationships; in most cases where we create drama, we are mostly shadow boxing with our own projected images."
Dear Anonymous Reader (Would never guess who you are ;) It's ok darlin' - your secret identity is safe with me).
You're projecting, Sweet Thing.
posted by Lady Julia @ 1:30 PM
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Dear Lady Julia,
It is amusing in a pathological sort of way to see what happens when people are allowed to state their 'true' feelings. From the nasty comments I have seen, I think most of these folks are simply jealous that a lot of people like your approach and like you on line and aren't flocking to places these others think would be much better. A blog is a blog and You should use it as You wish. My feeling is that erotic hypnotism is something that makes life fun and there are few enough things that do that. Most of us just want to have good relationships and enjoy the time we have the best way we can. When I see these attack comments, I think projection is right on the mark and it says a lot about the fact that the life of the attacker is probably not all the attacker might wish and he/she takes it out on You because You seem to be doing better than they are. I think they are sad people and should be pitied. Keep on trucking, Lady Julia, You're doing just fine.
-william
You said it william!
Why the troll picture Lady J?
Some people have easily spotted writing styles.
Moderation in all things, even comments.
I've moderated comments on all my sites for a few years now. Mostly to block spam comments but people will post things like addresses and phone numbers which could easily be those of someone who have a grudge against.
A shame to have to spend the time, slow down conversations but probably the best policy.
Now we can go back to the important topic: what you have to share.
Thank you, William. I adore you my friend. As always, you are the voice of reason.
Toy, it's nice to see you! It's been quite some time. Why the troll picture? Well, it just seemed to fit. Aren't trolls those angry little creatures that hide under bridges and harass people as they cross?
Richard, I see your point. I can handle the snipey little remarks but I never didn't think about the confidentiality issue.
This person makes no sense. I don't see you creating drama. You're a very calming person and anyone who knows anything about you knows this. I think this writer is trying to look and sound smarter than he is and is just spewing a lot of bunk.
i get it - the irony and humor in Your response to anonymous (in this blog entry) is funny and VERY CLEVER.
robert
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