Satiated

On his blog pleaseletme made an interesting observation and posed an equally interesting question:

"Have any other submissive men out there noticed that their spouse's sexual appetite grew upon assuming control in a FLR? It certainly seems to be emerging as a pattern for my P. Would love to hear from other sub males about how their emerging FLR changed the patterns in your life (not just the sex part, though that's certainly of interest)."

Certainly I'm not a submissive man ;) but I'll answer for myself. I've always had a really healthy sexual appetite, but it absolutely blossomed with the inclusion of the power exchange dynamic. When a woman is in control, she gets what *she* needs from a sexual relationship (and other areas as well, of course). No longer did I have to wonder if he finds me sexy - I know he does. No longer did I wonder what buttons I should push to drive him wild and take him deeper under my control - I know :) Never again will I go to sleep frustrated (at least, not when we're together - cursed long distance relationship) .

It's freeing to know that I can have whatever I want and to know it's ok to want a lot :)

(By the way, it would please me very much if you'd pop over to pleaseletme's blog and leave a comment on his post if it is applicable to you.)

(Painting by Pierre-Auguste Renoir)