About Masturbation and Hypnotic Control
And the results are in! Thanks to everyone who participated :)
Which answer is most accurate for you?
- I am not in a power exchange relationship but if I was I believe I would be able to surrender control of my self-pleasuring activities without the aid of a mechanical device. 28.8% 23 votes
- I am in a power exchange relationship and my partner controls my self-pleasuring activities without a mechanical device. 25% 20 votes
- I am not in a power exchange relationship but if I was I believe I would be able to surrender control of my self-pleasuring activities with the aid of a mechanical device. 15% 12 votes
- Give up masturbation? Are you nuts? 11.3% 9 votes
- I am in a power exchange relationship and my partner thinks she controls my self-pleasuring activities but I still cheat from time to time. 8.8% 7 votes
- I am in a power exchange relationship and my partner controls my self-pleasuring activities with a mechanical device. 6.3% 5 votes
- I am not in a power exchange relationship but if I was I would not be able to surrender control of my self-pleasuring activities. 5% 4 votes
Since I use hypnosis as one method to train him and to guide him to a deepening level of submission, it is a simple matter to control his masturbation activities without any need for a chastity device. As my words slip inside his mind, he finds that he has an increasing desire to feel my control and to obey because obeying is pleasing and pleasing feels so very good. As his desire both to be controlled and to please me increases with each hypnotic session, I find that it isn't necessary to offer suggestions specifically designed to control just his penis. I control his body and his mind. He still desires to masturbate... in fact, I'm sure given the eroticism associated with hypnotic control, he probably desires to masturbate even more than he did before I took control. He doesn't, because I matter more than his cock does. What a delicious feeling it is to know that :)
posted by Lady Julia @ 7:06 PM
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Greetings Lady Julia!
I just wanted to write in as a member of the group in a power exchange relationship whose masturbation is controlled, but is still allowed to do so with my wife's permission. Thus, i would be lying if i said that i never did!
Can i please ask you to elaborate on how you use hypnosis in this context? If your hypnotic ministrations make him want to pleasure himself, then how does it prevent him from doing so?
warmly,
lh
i responded to Your survey and was one of the 20 votes on choice B. My Wife of 4 years and i recently modified our marriage into an LFA one about 2 months ago. As a teenager and throughout my first marriage, i pleasrued myself quite regularly.
Funny, it all stopped when i started dating this woman who i've known as a colleague for almost 26 years. That was 6 years ago. While our relationship is very open and we can discuss any topic between ourselves, there was no discussion about it... It wasn't because i had a secret from her or i was to embarrassed about it... it just never came up, no pun intended.
i love my Wife very, very, very much and i haven't had the desire; though i have to admit it did cross my mind a few times. But i never acted on it because the act and related pleasures now became something very special that we share and self-pleasuring does not fall into the same "sharing category. Yes i know, that one may self-pleasure in front of the other, but it is just not the same.
So, from my own experience, self-pleasuring was an habitual ritual when it was all about the physical. Now it is very spiritual and emotional for me and us, so it no longer works for me.
I found something interesting in the results of this pole. A couple of months ago, the group was discussing tease, denial and orgasm control. At that time most people indicated that they couldn't or wouldn't submit to it. Now that we have had that wonderful taste, that being Lady Julia's week of hypnotic tease and denail, most say they could, even would be able to. Hmmm, wonder if this was a planned test. :D Either way, i love how it turned out!
I didn't vote because my relationship with Alexandra doesn't involve that kind of control. We've talked about exploring it but it always gets put aside.
I'll admit that I find the idea of a chastity device - what a trite man - exciting. But I have a strong hankering for physical bondage. (Actually all she has to say is "don't" and that would be the end of it.)
I must confess with a bit of a blush your entry did awaken an interest in hypnosis that I put aside some months back. (I have strong doubts about being able to respond. Not from pride but a very restless mind and short attention span.)
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