The Perfect Domme

I've been ill the past few days and haven't been the world's cheeriest person. It's a good thing he knows that he serves me in good times and in bad or he'd probably be gone by now :) I really appreciate that because, unlike the model in the photo, I don't look like I stepped out of a magazine when I'm ill.

Sometimes I have to wonder about people who expect their Domme to be an uber Domme. You know what I mean, "my Domme is always strong, she never needs to seek advice, she always knows what is right, she's shaped like a swimsuit model" blah, blah, blah. I always wonder if these people have ever had a nodding acquaintance with a woman let alone a real relationship ;) In seriousness, I do think they are setting themselves up for a failed relationship should they ever find someone who initially measures up. No one can sustain that level of "perfection" (and in fact, I'd argue if they possess it in the beginning it's only an illusion). Dommes, like everyone else, are imperfect. Of course we, like everyone else, should strive to be the best person we can be.

The bottom line is - on my worst days, I still control him. On my worst days, he still surrenders. That's the crux of a true power exchange.