Dear Domme

On most days I receive a lot of email (right now there are 472 unread emails in my inbox that have arrived over the past three or four days). Most of the communications I receive are well written, respectful, and a pleasure to read. There are some individuals, however, who seem to be less than skilled at writing to someone in a respectful manner. I don't think this is an intended rudeness so I try not to get bent out of shape about it. I do think that those who are trying to impress a Domme with their initial contact might wish to take note of a few points.

Consider beginning your email with a salutation. "Dear Lady Whoever." I know some might not do this because they are uncertain how to address the Domme. I think you probably can't go wrong by addressing her by her publicly used name or pseudonym. It's always ok to ask, "how should I address you?"

Keep your initial email brief and to the point. It's a little disconcerting to receive a massively long email from someone I've never heard from before. Later on if she chooses to continue communicating, lengthier communications are probably acceptable.

End your email with a respectful closure. "Sincerely, John D." I really dislike writing back to someone and having no idea how to address them. The writer doesn't have to give his real name, but it's nice to provide at least a pseudonym.

In re-reading this before I press "publish post", I realized that this may sound a little picky. Perhaps it is, but I can't imagine that I'm the only Lady who feels this way :) In the world of electronic communication, your typed words are a representation of you. If you're wishing to impress, it's always a good idea to put your best foot forward.

I wonder if the other Ladies who read this blog feel the same?