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ACTS Just about everyone in the LFA and D/s lifestyles has their own definition for "Goddess" or "Domme", but the simplest one for me is a woman who knows what she wants, expects it from her partner, and gets it. It's not about any particular act, it's a way of interacting. As an example, I really enjoy controlling him physically - both his arousal and his release. I'm not sure I could ever find the words to adequately describe just how much it excites me to hear his sharp intake of breath, to see his body respond, or to hear "please Mistress" in that desperately pleading sort of way. Let's just say it's a delicious feeling :) Occasionally, one of the ways I use to elicit this type of response is fellatio. (I can hear the collective gasp, surely that's a submissive act??) Hardly. At least, not when I do it ;) I can tease him as long or as little as I wish, feel the physical response to my control, and take him anywhere I choose to lead. And.. how much more vulnerable can a man be than in that particular position? ;) Today in my group Ginger asked, "can you think of any acts that are strictly dominant or submissive acts?" Pretty much I'd have to say, whenever he does whatever I want him to do or whenever he does something strictly to please me, that's a submissive act. Whenever I do something to control him or to please myself, that's a dominant act. I say let go of the labels and just enjoy :) |
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