• Be honest. If I ever reach the conclusion that I can't trust you, I'll never hypnotize you.
• If you're going to IM a tist and attempt to strike up a conversation, remember three things. Participate politely in the channel/room conversation for awhile so that people can get to know you. Ask permission in the channel/room before you IM. Lastly, have some sort of completed online profile for review. Remember you're wanting to make an impression, so show off who you are. If you have a good sense of humor, let your profile reflect that with a funny comment. If you're have special hobbies or talents, list them.
• Be honest. Don't fake an interest in the tist just for a "quickie" trance. We can usually tell if you are.
• Be respectful, sincere, and show an interest in the tist as a person. Take time to get to know him/her and let them get to know you. No, we don't carry interview questionnaire forms, so this means spending time in general conversation. Show an interest in his/her interests. Are they interested in current events? Read/watch the news. Share about your interests. Getting to know someone takes time. One of the most important things to me is that the people I trance see me as more than a Domme/Tist.
• Be honest (I'm making a point about honesty, huh?)
• Have a good sense of humor about things. Everything won't always go the way you want it to - learn to roll with that and see the humor in the situation. A sense of humor is incredibly attractive to most people.
• Learn to accept "no" as an answer. If you gracefully accept "no" the first time you ask, the tist may reconsider after they get to know you better. Either way, they'll certainly respect you more. Realize that a hypnotic session is an investment of time and energy on the part of the tist. Yes, we enjoying doing it, but we're not always "on". Some days, our minds/interests simply are in other places.
• (On this one - I'm speaking for the Lady Tist perspective.) Do little, thoughtful things expecting nothing in return. Is She a little under the weather? Send Her a get well card. Does She like poetry, special songs, etc? You don't know? Ask Her :) She won't be shy about telling you what She likes.
• Don't beg. Speaking as a HypnoDomme, we want you to beg only when we want you to beg. You'll know the difference (wink).
• Be honest. Never fake a trance. If the session didn't "work for you", don't pretend it did. Honest feedback is important. Faking a trance is the quickest way to ensure I'll never trance you again.

Well, other than urging you to be honest, that's all I can think of at the moment (wink).

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